Am I being controlling or is this weird?

[Gomyownway]

Posting here because DP told me to in order to see your responses.

DP has a female friend from his old work who I’ve never met. He just told me that he’s going to see her next week. Fine, I have no issues with him having female friends. However he then said it was to go shopping together, and buy some shoes with his end of year bonus. Is it odd that this makes me feel uncomfortable. I offered to come too (we both booked a week off work together) but he said no.

@bloodydisgrace quite right! In fact I think those who label the woman possessive or controlling are ghosting of the worst kind.

. They pretend they don't understand what your fuss is about and clearly get high on the thought how "progressive" and "liberated" they are comparing to the "neurotic" or "possessive" wife.

Cheating. Good luck.