To not go to friends wedding tomorrow...I'm the bridesmaid

[sillyandsally]

I had a baby 3 months ago and she isn't sleeping on a night at all.
I'm lucky if I get 2 hours sleep.
I'm exhausted to a point I feel sick.
My friends wedding tomorrow and I'm bridesmaid but I know tonight I will be lucky to get even 3 hours sleep so I'm going to be in no fit state.
I feel so sick and exhausted with tiredness.
Aibu to tell her I can't go?
The wedding is at 1pm but she wants me over at 9am for makeup and hair.
I don't know what to do

Well Done OP

Well done! 💐

Ah that’s great, you must be pleased you pushed on through. I promise you will get more sleep at some point, even if it feels years away just now!

Aaw so pleased for you, you're a superstar! Hope you get some proper rest soon

OP - duvet day and netflix reward

fab news

@sillyandsally that's just fab, well done you! You also seem like you were glad you went, which is marvellous.

Glad you had a good night! Sometimes it's things that you're not looking forward to, that you enjoy the most.

Well done OP. Glad you had a good time.

This is the bit about being a grown up and a mum that they never tell you about. That you have to keep going no matter what. But it does build stamina - eventually.

Fantastic well done!

Don't go! I know what this was like, I couldn't function at all, if she is your friend she will understand, if you can, just do the actual service walk up the aisle and then go, LOOK AFTER YOURSELF you are worth it

@antmusic The wedding was yesterday and she went.

@antmusic read more than one post on a thread that is over 600 posts long and three days old! It might help in showing you things have moved on somewhat. OP has been, lasted the day/night and danced and enjoyed the company......

antmusic this thread is a few days old. She went.

I'm really glad you enjoyed yourself OP!

Well done! I'm glad you had a good time.

Fantastic . Glad you had a good day and night OP

Well done op. And Minmooch, can I say that you will learn to live alongside your sadness one day. My love, the love of a stranger, goes out to you.

Well done Silly. You should be very proud of yourself.

Glad you had a good time - that's the advantage of doing something you're dreading - it usually isn't as bad as you're imagining.

Hope you're able to sort something out so you can et a bit more time to yourself and a bit more sleep from now on.

Well done!

I'm glad you went OP and hope you have a fab time

If your freind dosent understand you being exhausted what kind of a freind is that

Yes mummyfran you’re right. I think OP should text her friend right now to say she’s not going to the wedding yesterday.

@Mummyfran121617 it's a married friend! She got married yesterday, we know because OP saw it happen as she was there being a bridesmaid!

Ah I'm so glad you did it @sillyandsally sometimes all you can do it get pished and dance the macarena