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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Or are these forums actually set up as a 'den of vipers'?

131 replies

applesisapple5 · 27/02/2019 07:08

Mumsnet forums are crap. The format is so old! Even free blogs allow you to;

  1. thread replies to get a CONVERSATION going rather than every person responding to the OP. I'm supposed to remember the spelling of a random user I agree with and @ them? Bollocks.
  2. edit posts so you can correct inevitable typos and...
  3. so the OP can add edits of pertinent info so responders don't have to trawl through for updates
  4. RTFT?!?!?! Nowhere else on the internet do we have that bollocks! Upvote, downvote technology should push the most relevant and helpful comments to the top.
  5. avatars so you have some chance of remembering who people are. Come on that's absolutely basic.

That's why AIBU is such a pile on [pile just autocorrected to 'polenta'?!?!], why is it so crap?

OP posts:
SneakyGremlins · 27/02/2019 07:10

You're literally describing Reddit, bar the avatars.

FissionChip5 · 27/02/2019 07:12

Why not just fuck off to Reddit ?

Eminybob · 27/02/2019 07:14

Go and post somewhere else then.
I like the mumsnet format, it’s nice and simple. I get lost on other forums where there’s replies going off in all directions.

Ifailed · 27/02/2019 07:15

go elsewhere for your ego polishing up-voting.

ChodeofChodeHall · 27/02/2019 07:17

It's awful being forced to post on a forum you hate. I hope you manage to escape soon.

FamilyOfAliens · 27/02/2019 07:17

So have I got this right - you hate everything about Mumsnet and because of that, you want to change it do that it’s just the same as a forum you like?

There’s a simple solution, OP.

TheNightIsForever · 27/02/2019 07:18

I love the fact that I've been coming on MN for 12 years and can still navigate it in the same way.

Don't like it then fuck off somewhere else.

applesisapple5 · 27/02/2019 07:21

Reddit, Facebook, YouTube, squarespace even Wordpress has all these features. And now you won't see my responses because I can tell reply to you or remember your random username.

OP posts:
echt · 27/02/2019 07:22

It's the UK's most popular website for parents, so it must be doing something right.

You know what to to do>>>Flouncers' Corner, if you don't like it.

WendyImHome · 27/02/2019 07:23

We’ll see it, it’s green

applesisapple5 · 27/02/2019 07:23

Ok, I should def fuck off to Reddit, BUT don't you think that when OPs get 'piled on' it's the format that makes it that way intrinsically?
And wouldn't it be good to have AIBU YES/NO polls?

OP posts:
SneakyGremlins · 27/02/2019 07:24

No.

echt · 27/02/2019 07:24

No.

Next.

TheNightIsForever · 27/02/2019 07:25

Nope

FamilyOfAliens · 27/02/2019 07:25

Post on site stuff if you want MNHQ to consider any technical changes.

gilchrist168 · 27/02/2019 07:25

OP, you are a bear of little brain.Smile

echt · 27/02/2019 07:26

Yes/No polls encourage laziness. At least those who "pile in" take the trouble to write something.

Like "likes" on FB. Total lazy fuckery. Write something or bugger off.

Margotshypotheticaldog · 27/02/2019 07:26

Nah. I like it this way.

surferjet · 27/02/2019 07:28

I love it’s simplicity, crikey even netmums confuses me! maybe we’re all a bit older on here & like a forum without lots of gimmicks.
( although a 2 minute edit function would be good )

Margotshypotheticaldog · 27/02/2019 07:28

Op are you quite young and with it? (yknow, like hip?) I'm old, maybe it's a young/old person thing...?

pitterpatterbaby · 27/02/2019 07:29

A like button would be handy as yes I see things that make me chuckle and I'd like to acknowledge that. Can't remember user names etc 😂

picklemepopcorn · 27/02/2019 07:29

I like it. I can't get the hang of reddit. There's no narrative order to it.

The app makes it easy to @people, the OP's posts are a different colour to everyone else's, and I can cope with a few typos.

Was there something else?

00100001 · 27/02/2019 07:29

If it's so shit here, why are you here???

whatwouldyoubelikeat28 · 27/02/2019 07:29

Of course it's full of vipers, that's why most of them are here!

picklemepopcorn · 27/02/2019 07:30

If the OP got updated mid thread, half the replies wouldn't make sense.