Some people may remember my previous thread, DH's friend staying with us for two weeks as he's homeless, he'll be leaving on Tuesday.
He manages to sleep through his alarms, three have gone off this morning and he's still not up.
DH left early for a day out with mates this morning and has been waking him up everyday since he's stayed here, which i have outright refused to do.
So DH's friend has some overtime with another friend today, and he'll be taking the other friend there. The other friend can't get there without DH's friend who is staying with us as he can't drive. So if DH's friend doesn't get up, the other friend won't be able to work today.
DH asked if i would wake his friend up but i refused, which he was completely fine with and agrees it's not my responsibility.
But now the other friend has messaged me asking if i can please get him up because they need to leave!!
AIBU to say no or just ignore the message?
He's an adult and needs to learn the consequences of not getting up for work surely? But other friend won't be able to work today if I don't, and he's also expecting a baby so I feel bad if I don't because it's not his fault this lazy fucker can't get out of bed. 
And he'll be leaving on Tuesday regardless of whether he has any money if anyone's wondering 
AIBU?
To not wake DH's friend up?
Greywalls12 · 09/02/2019 07:49
Well, has he woken up by himself today? Are you going to wake him up?
Has he packed?
Has he left?
Questions... questions...
DH woke him up before he left for work, friend fell back asleep and didn't leave till 9 (meant to leave at half 7, and no i didn't wake him up ).
DH confirmed yesterday friend is definitely leaving today and he discussed it with friend yesterday so everyone's 100% clear, he'll be collecting his things after work (if he's even gone to work?).
No idea where he's staying from tonight, but it's not my house 1 friend has now said he can only stay with him 3 nights a week as he has someone else staying. Another friend (the one who is expecting a baby also and worked with him on Sat) has offered to put him up for 6 weeks (!!!!!!) Untill he is sorted, but friend has said he'd rather go back to living in a shed.
He has no savings, is well into his overdraft still and has made no effort to find appropriate accomodation or seek help/advice.
DH has given up, not our problem anymore, and we've been more than generous by letting him stay here for 2 weeks for free. I also got up this morning to the smell of weed outside the room he is in, which i find is hugely distrespectful after I had already spoken to him about it, and there is absolutely no chance in hell he is staying another night, or any night in the future for that matter.
RTFT.
Cancel the cheque OP.
Hallelujah that today is his leaving day. Don't ever let him stay again.
Err, he was offered somewhere to stay with the mate he gives a lift to work, for SIX WEEKS, and he had the audacity to say he'd rather go back to staying in a shed?
Fuck him.
He doesn't deserve anyone's help with that kind of attitude.
Although, at least if he's in a shed, he probably wouldn't be up til all hours playing games, as a shed's less likely to have power and internet!
Worrarudetwat.
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