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AIBU?

To not wake DH's friend up?

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Greywalls12 · 09/02/2019 07:49

Some people may remember my previous thread, DH's friend staying with us for two weeks as he's homeless, he'll be leaving on Tuesday.

He manages to sleep through his alarms, three have gone off this morning and he's still not up.
DH left early for a day out with mates this morning and has been waking him up everyday since he's stayed here, which i have outright refused to do.

So DH's friend has some overtime with another friend today, and he'll be taking the other friend there. The other friend can't get there without DH's friend who is staying with us as he can't drive. So if DH's friend doesn't get up, the other friend won't be able to work today.

DH asked if i would wake his friend up but i refused, which he was completely fine with and agrees it's not my responsibility.

But now the other friend has messaged me asking if i can please get him up because they need to leave!!

AIBU to say no or just ignore the message?

He's an adult and needs to learn the consequences of not getting up for work surely? But other friend won't be able to work today if I don't, and he's also expecting a baby so I feel bad if I don't because it's not his fault this lazy fucker can't get out of bed.

And he'll be leaving on Tuesday regardless of whether he has any money if anyone's wondering

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cheesydoesit · 12/02/2019 20:07

I hope he's gone and you are having a toast of Schloer on your vacated sofa.

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MrsJane · 12/02/2019 20:38

Has he gone???

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Thesnobbymiddleclassone · 12/02/2019 20:40

Has the child gone yet.

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Greywalls12 · 12/02/2019 22:16

He got all his things about 5ish, no problems at all and he bought me flowers and wrote a nice card

Just me and DH here now yay!

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woolduvet · 12/02/2019 22:53

Fab!

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Popc0rn · 12/02/2019 23:01

Woop!

Well done OP for being nice in the first place and offering him a place to stay, enjoy the peace!

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thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter · 12/02/2019 23:20

Greywalls12 I doff my hat off to you, you're a better person than I would have been in this situation. You're due a sizable amount of good karma. Enjoy your mat leave.