To find this message from DP a complete turn off

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DP sent me a message earlier ‘ are you going to dress sexy tonight?’

I’m in jeans & a jumper waiting for him to come home. I’ll be cooking dinner (again) & he’ll be coming in in his sports kit.

AIBU to find it a turn off ?

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I don’t need to, I’m so hot!
You on the other hand... ;)

"Clothes maketh the man"..not the woman. Ties for instance... good indicators of which end is talking.

"currently oiling the sexsuit"

Was the last one I sent.

She thought it was funny

Mine would be, Who’s sexy?

And why can’t they dress themself?

I think he’s just clumsily signalling he’s in the mood for some boning later.

Gosh. Everyone’s a bit po faced on here “why are you with the twat?” Jeezy peeps; he’s trying a wee bit of flirting and it’s all LTB on here tonight

Why are you with a twat like this?

Bit harsh

Seriously, it’s a little bit twattish, but not LTB-worthy, imo.

Relationships peter out when either party stops making an effort or start taking each other for granted. I presume he's dressing nicely too ?

Ha, good x-post lamb

Ah, that would be a competition to put on the most grotesque outfit, actually that sounds like fun, I may start 'sexy' clothes nights with dp. Deffo have a 10 year old zebra onesie, complete with tail, knocking about

A complete turn off for me.

NORWICH....

Is he 16? A grown man talking to a grown woman like that? Yuk!

How cringe of him!

The head to toe rubber had be crying with laughter!

“ my apple-catchers are positively claggy at the prospect of your homecoming- I am even donning my tan pop socks in your honour”

I'd object to the poor grammar - but otherwise, I'd be quite pleased, and would be happy to oblige. I have no desire at all to turn into a sad sack, and would appreciate not being treated like an old piece of furniture.

My STBXH thought it was sexy to text “ wanna suck my cock” after s row 😞 he thought I might enjoy being a bit naughty to diffuse things ?! I HATE sexting.... I think it’s sort of controlling - demeaning and trying to get you to dance to their tune.

May be a bit clumsy but at least he’s trying. He obviously still finds you attractive. Take it in the spirit that it is meant.

“I'd object to the poor grammar - but otherwise, I'd be quite pleased, and would be happy to oblige. I have no desire at all to turn into a sad sack, and would appreciate not being treated like an old piece of furniture.”

Quite. A lot of really sad responses on this thread.

just (nervously) googled 'apple catchers' - you learn something everyday!

'You don't spell "salad" like that'

I think there might be midpoint between furniture and ‘dress sexy’. It’s the same place where common decency and genuine intimacy rests.

"New phone, who dis?"

What’s wrong with sexting??