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What, if life was like tv and films, should you never do?

277 replies

Wineandpyjamas · 09/01/2019 10:53

Not really an AIBU but I had an errant thought that if life was like tv shoes and films I would never own a dog or go running/jogging as more than likely I’d discover a dead body.

Has anyone got any more?

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waywardfruit · 09/01/2019 21:15

Oh, and that hot new bloke that has just moved to your village?

Don't shag him - he's your brother Grin

PavlovianLunge · 09/01/2019 21:16

If you find a big, leathery egg, don’t put your face above it.

Dutch1e · 09/01/2019 21:18

Never bother keeping your voice down in a crowded restaurant when chatting about sensitive details of national security. Absolutely no-one will look up or hear anything.

Dutch1e · 09/01/2019 21:22

And don't worry about keeping the contact details of anyone important. You'll bump into them 50 times in Rome or New York.

Also never check the traffic before a car chase. It's all clear streets and unfinished bridges for the next 20 miles.

ILiveInSalemsLot · 09/01/2019 21:34

Don’t bother learning to drive. It’s so easy. Just chat merrily away to your passenger, maintain eye contact with them as you only need to glance at the road momentarily if you feel like it, adjust the steering wheel left to right slightly then back again every now and then.
You’ll be at your destination in no time.

crivit · 09/01/2019 21:34

That beautiful vintage doll you find for a remarkable price in a second hand store? Absolutely do not buy it for your child.

JaneJeffer · 09/01/2019 21:37

If you're taking a day trip to a remote location make sure you never fill your petrol tank or charge your phone. Under no circumstances should you have a sat-nav. Don't ask for directions unless you happen to see a really strange man by the roadside. Don't refuse this man a lift when he offers to accompany you to your destination.

userschmoozer · 09/01/2019 21:40

Make sure you keep super fit, because at some point you will have to run as fast as you can for miles.

MaisyPops · 09/01/2019 22:31

This thread made me think of this song from the Tony Awards. From 2 mins it it's what if life were more like theatre

Grin
Lilmisskittykat · 09/01/2019 22:38

Never hide under the bed... And never check under the bed... in fact don't buy a bed sleep in the floor.

If you think you've killed someone who was hell bent on killing you .. make sure you know they are dead (best remove their head) so when walk away and you turn back they are still lying there dead.

Hear voices ? Get the hell out of there...
Strange neighbour? Sell up and move

Bouchie · 09/01/2019 22:40

Do not be a black man in an action movie. You will only have a line or two and then you will die.

Do not be a black female in a high School movie at best you'll be the token ethnic best friend

Do not be of Chinese or Japanese heritage unless you want to be incredibly clever with very strict parents.

ILiveInSalemsLot · 09/01/2019 22:44

If you are a black man who’s going to hang around then you need to be the chief of police. An angry one.

Flyingfish2019 · 09/01/2019 22:56

Do not be Irish or you will be living during the Great Depression, dirt poor, come from a family of nine and be abused by cruel priests

Do not be German or you will be a villain

Same goes for Russians

Do not be Italian or you will have to drive a moped only say Mamamia and Ciao, wear sunglasses even and night and be a member of the mafia.

schnubbins · 09/01/2019 22:59

Live where Inspector Barnaby does.There must be nobody left alive in that town.

NotAColdWomanHenry · 09/01/2019 23:00

In pubs and restaurants, don't order anything nice, it will just be wasted. About 10 minutes in, you'll have a screaming row with your date, get an urgent top security phone call, or spot your nemesis through the window and have to suddenly get up and leave all your food and drink behind.

Wineandpyjamas · 09/01/2019 23:01

If I needed to think I would never just do it in my head. I would immediately find the nearest bathroom and splash water all over my face. Then stare pensively into the mirror for an unspecified amount of time.

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NotAColdWomanHenry · 09/01/2019 23:05

Never receive bad news of an emotional nature in a well-appointed room with nice furniture and ornaments. You will involuntarily smash it to pieces.

NotAColdWomanHenry · 09/01/2019 23:07

If you're a character in a film or TV series, never actually go to the cinema yourself. There will always be an inconsiderate twat right next to you with a bucket of noisy popcorn the size of a toddler.

tolerable · 10/01/2019 02:16

paint a face on a coconut and befriend it while stranded alone..anywhere,ever.

Graphista · 10/01/2019 05:17

"In fact I would try to act like a person nobody misses after their death" er... Don't be too hasty!

In detective shows the person everyone hates and who is shit to everyone is the first victim always! Because there's loads of suspects then cos everyone wants them dead.

It's a balance you can't be too nice OR too nasty (both extremes also likely to be 'prime suspect' if not the victim - so the audience goes 'not them they're too nice it'd be too big a twist' 'not them it's too obvious to make it the nasty person')

Never say "what are you doing here?l" it immediate precedes your murder by surprise visitor!

"Never use elaborate methods to murder secret agents. It just gives them time to escape.
Just shoot them." Haha yes!!

Never interrupt someone who says "I have something really important to tell you..." Because at best it'll save you embarrassment (you're about to tell them you love them they're about to tell you they're marrying someone else) at worst it could be life saving facts!

Never say anything like "everything's going so well right now, love my job, relationships grand, everyone I love is healthy" it'll all go tits up!

Never wear a uniform with a red shirt (Star Trek)

"If you have a choice of uniform colours, don't pick the red." Great minds - wrote before I saw your comment.

"Wear a red top.

[Looks at current outfit]

Balls." 😂😂😂there's way too many of us know this rule!

If you have a long lost relative assume it could literally be anyone you already know (and probably hate!)

AS SOON as you hide from the villain/s bloody well put your phone on SILENT and I mean PROPER silent not vibrate and darken the screen.

"If you get out of the killers/kidnappers den. Get your shit together, actually speak to the people who have picked you up on the road, not go into hysterics. Tell them to just drive whilst calling the Police." But if your captors wore masks etc and you're in middle of nowhere DON'T accept a lift - that nice person will turn out to be your captor or worse usually - the real villain behind it all (spoiler alert Ransom with Gary sinise as the cop investigating the kidnapping being the mastermind behind it was a HUGE twist at the time. Very disturbing how the reveal was made)

Never laugh publicly at the dork you'd never date when they ask you out - they'll either become an obsessed stalker or have a makeover, make you fall in love with them then dump you in the most public, humiliating way

Never use stairs in early pregnancy - you will fall down them causing a mc (even though this is medical bollocks!)

"Never pretend type as you will look so unconvincing that you will be sacked by the end of the day." Can I PLEASE add use a switchboard or even bloody googling to this! NOBODY gets the exact result they want as first result on a ONE WORD SEARCH ffs!

Never divulge a secret in a "private" place without first sweeping for bugs and employing a phone signal jammer and taking the person your tellings phone off them and turning it off! Paranoid? It's a skill of survival!

Never agree to partner the "Maverick" whatever - it's not even just cops! RIP goose 😪 the nice partner always gets dead!

"Never, ever stick to any workplace rules unless it involves something cool like showing a shiny badge or wearing a hot uniform. God forbid you comply with the Working Time Directive or complete adequate notes for your colleagues or change the department answerphone message before you dash out for an extended 24 hour absence running after the villain." Even more infuriating when the actors are meant to be in a profession! As you can see I'm up v late often, I've watched too many times a "behind the scenes" clip interviewing the guy who was the medical advisor for silent witness. He tells a story of when he was first a technical advisor on a medical show, they're all angsting why the patient hooked up to the enviable, state of the art equipment isn't getting better - his thought "well it might help if you switched it on!" 😂😂😂 as an ex nurse I've lost count of back to front X Ray's, healthy cardiographs declared indicating imminent death, wrongly placed/set up iv tubes etc, hell even little things like how beds are moved! - don't even get me started on patients having conditions that wouldn't have gone undx so long as is made out without them dying first!

This whole thread is making me think of Scream!

"some big-breasted girl who can't act who is always running up the stairs when she should be running out the front door. It's insulting." Which is then precisely what Sidney does

Never say "I'll be right back"

"There's a formula to it—a very simple formula!" 😂😂😂

"If you kill the bad guy, don’t just breathe a sigh of relief, relax and assume they’re actually dead. Either run off and call the police or make sure you do the killing properly." Also covered in the Scream franchise - they're never really dead till you killed em at least twice!

Final destination movies also good for the "spot the disaster about to happen" people.

What I WOULD do? LISTEN to the seemingly crazy person telling you

There's a new ice age coming INSTANTLY

There's a bomb

They're from the future and they need your help

They have magical/superhuman powers

There's someone out to get you!

They're your long lost relative.

"Never be fat, they always die first." I'm screwed! Short, fat, female and grey! "Marian Keyes fans will get this" yep!

"We play ‘spot the stiff’ a lot." I am SO stealing this to play with dd - we mainly watch horrors and thrillers together as have different taste in comedy and drama.

"Keep quiet and let him try to prove it in court, with NO evidence." Omg yes! There's very rarely decent evidence AND even if there is Its contaminated because Jessica fletcher or poirot or whoever has handled it and they're not authorised and didn't use gloves!

"Always listen to the music." Iirc (from my "Mickey Mouse" uni course on film studies) there was an experiment done on this - male feet approaching female feet (so no facial expressions or other body language to go on)
light piano music = romantic assignation
dark cello music = he's gonna kill her!

If you're an addict could go one of 2 ways - death or cured by ONE visit to AA!

"I WILL however wear a white shirt. They always seem impervious to dirt." Unless you're John mcclane of course.

"On a more positive note I wish it was normal to sing your thoughts and feelings." I'd LOVE this!

"your job involves chasing and detaining criminals. Be sure never to wear comfortable shoes, trousers, a long sleeved top of loose fitting clothes." I loved rizzoli & Isles for this. Jane wore practical "pantsuits" and low heeled boots and often had her hair tied up. No female copper in real life I know farts about with loose hair, long earrings, skirts/dresses and heels!

"If you are a black man who’s going to hang around then you need to be the chief of police. An angry one." I think Eddie murphys boss in Beverly Hills 2 would beg to differ (trivia: not an actor a real cop)

sashh · 10/01/2019 05:55

Never ever go near Sean Bean, you know he will die, probably in a nasty way. The only exception to this is if he wearing the South Essex Rifles uniform, then he never dies even if seriously wounded.

Rockmysocks · 10/01/2019 06:36

Never shower. The quality of the water supply cannot be guaranteed and may randomly fill with blood or strange flesh eating worms. If you are lucky enough to get a decent shower you still have to run the gauntlet of the stabby man the other side of the shower curtain.

Huggybear16 · 10/01/2019 07:24

Close a mirrored bathroom cabinet. There is always something reflected over your shoulder waiting for you. Always

Love this

Stardustinmyeyes · 10/01/2019 08:02

Storage tribes= Ikea warriors Grin
The autocorrects have been brilliant

If you are in a soap never say
This is going to be the best Christmas ever.
HELLO no it isn't
Nothing's going to stop this wedding
HELLO something will

Quirkyturkey · 10/01/2019 08:40

If you are escaping from the baddies and get the chance, KILL THEM AND TAKE THEIR GUN/KNIFE/GRENADE (then shoot them again at least three times to be sure! Don't just knock 'em out and leave the weapon two inches away from their open hand FFS!