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My partner won't stop pestering me for sex

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Saminsachs · 08/01/2019 11:31

My partner has a huge sex drive. We have a four month old baby and tbh,I have not been at all in the mood since giving birth. I wasn't before either,but I had sex with him to keep the peace,as he goes on and on and on about it and gets in a terrible mood.

Anyway,he's been away working for ten days and got back last night and wanted sex straight away. He didn't want to talk,just,as he puts it 'get laid' I was tired and kept on saying no and when he realised he wasn't going to get sex,he just went on the computer.

This morning,he's been on and on about it and even started unbuttoning his trousers, wanting a 'quickie' when our baby was right there next to him in his bouncy chair.

It's all he wants,but I just don't want to...not all the time. I just do it to make him stop pestering me. I could actually in all honesty very happily live without it. But I also hope that if I say yes and do it,it'll satisfy him for a few days...but it never does.

Aibu?

OP posts:
Gina2012 · 12/01/2019 06:37

so be flattered that your partner is gagging for it from you!

Oh grow up

Jesus Shock

GrandmaSteglitszch · 12/01/2019 11:41

You would not be breaking up a family. This man is doing that by taking no part in being a family, and by behaving vilely to you.
You and your DCs will be a much happier family with him not there.

Get some real life help and advice.
(The Kur and Frauenhäuser sound great.)

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 12/01/2019 12:15

Dear Sam. There is no better advice I can give you that the good people of Mumsnet haven't already given. I'm so sorry you are going through this, and have to say I think this is one of the saddest threads I've ever read on this forum. I also applaud you for having the courage to look at your life and see it as it really is. As I know from experience, this is one of the most difficult and painful things it's possible to do.

I couldn't read this thread without sending you big virtual hugs, if you'd like them, and the moral support of just another internet stranger.

Please take care.

Slothslothsloth · 17/01/2019 20:24

Hi Saminsachs

How are you getting on? Are you doing okay? Hope everything is going well with you.

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