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Christmas do cheaters!

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youcanthandlethetruth · 13/12/2018 15:28

Just curious as to whether this is the norm

One woman I work with is having an affair with two married men in our office. Which she and they have since admitted to. Notably was seen getting into a taxi with both following the Christmas do!

On the same night of the Christmas do, another woman kissed a man who just got married last month. Seen kissing a few times in front of everyone! When I asked her about it she said “awk it’s just one of the those things.” She also cheated on her partner earlier in the year with a different man we work with.

Another younger girl who just started in the office last month is also suspected of being overly friendly with another married man. Everyone suspects an affair but this has never been confirmed.

Thing is - none of their partner’s know. I know this for a fact from various conversations throughout the year.

And my male boss has admitted to fancying someone else in our office. He always says that if he got the chance to have a night with her he’d take it (again he has been married for a long time)

Am I the only faithful person out there. How do people do this with no conscience. I would feel wick if I did that on my dp.

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Sb74 · 15/12/2018 20:11

Christmas is no excuse to cheat. Makes me sick too. I remember many many years ago as a young girl at my first work Christmas doo, two members of staff were passionately snogging in the nightclub we were in. The man was engaged to be married and the woman was married. They were hidden down a corridor and the mans fiancée was best friends with a girl who worked with us and she was at that same party. She started to walk in the direction of the snogging couple and I said I’m not sure you want to see what’s happening there, thinking she’d be upset seeing her best friends fiancé snogging this woman but she couldn’t care less and laughed it off as that’s what happens??!! I was the youngest there and very shocked at people’s attitues!! I have never been unfaithful and never would. It’s hirrible.

OneWomanMan1 · 16/12/2018 09:37

I don’t recall saying I did that as a stamp of fidelity. Nor do I believe that a single picture in the world can prove you DIDN’T cheat on your wife/husband. I showed her pics because I thought they were funny and I share my life with her. She showed me this thread as my pics reminded her of something she just read herself.

haloumi · 17/12/2018 10:25

I work in STEM also, and I don't THINK our company is like this. (It's a very big, well known one)

Our policies and company attitude towards respect and the way we treat people within the organisation would NOT agree with this type of behaviour.

It's 2018 people! ... the days of shagging someone on the photocopier should be well and truly in the past .....

tierraJ · 17/12/2018 11:24

Doctors & surgeons are the worst at Christmas parties & the rest of the year actually too.

If I was married to a doc I wouldn't trust them ever.

However Christmas party pre hospital days for a famous paint manufacturer was interesting... drugs everywhere etc.

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Carriecakes80 · 23/12/2018 18:54

Bless my other half, he never goes to his work do because two of the women make a bee-line for him the second they have had a drink, they tell him if he 'had some fun' with them that I would never know.
He just sighed and told me and came home early to take me out instead lol. That was four years ago and rather than making a big thing of it, he just avoids lol.
There are some good men out there! lol x

jokesonme · 24/12/2018 11:57

carriecakes he sounds amazing, never let him go.

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