To remove my coil and not tell dh?

[tinatantrum]

it came out today and I've not said a word!

So are you hoping to get pregnant then?

If you're planning on getting pregnant without discussing it with him, then yes, YABU.

Um, a bit more than 'unreasonable', if you deliberately get pg without telling him what's happened!

I'm not sure I guess yes but he is a definate no.

If you're hoping to get pregnant and know he's not keen/haven't consulted him then absolutely yabvu. Sorry.

YABU.

Don't do it.

I have warned him in the past that I'd trap him and I think he half expects it

blimey Bit mean not to tell him.

trap him?

youare.

I retract that last statement - a bit mean is a bit of an understatement.

yabu - please explain I don't recognise abrieviation sorry!

You're kidding, surely?

YOU ARE BEING UNREASONABLE

Oh, well get on with your own two games, then.
Conception is such a laugh, isn't it? Conceive a child, what's the difference, only another baby....

yabu - YOU ARE BEING UNREASONABLE.

I don't want to have an only child but I don't want to fight a fight with no compromise.

I can't beleive you are actually thinking of not mentioning it. I didn't think the things could just fall out, are you going to tell us you have had it taken out deliberately and not going to tell him?
Outrageous. Deception. Entrapment.

Did you not discuss how many children you would like before having the first one?

If you're so desperate to be pregnant then you need to tell him that, not trick him into it.

I want 2 he wants to stick at 1 where do you go with that. I know I am being unreasonable but then surely so is he.....
I'm not a bitch and I'm not taking this lightly.

I sympathise, TT, but you need to sort it out llike grown ups, Honestyly.

After all - grown ups tend to make the best parents.

tell him - and tell him how you feel.