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AIBU?

To remove my coil and not tell dh?

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tinatantrum · 18/06/2007 23:08

it came out today and I've not said a word!

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cornsilk · 18/06/2007 23:09

So are you hoping to get pregnant then?

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BrothelSprouts · 18/06/2007 23:09

If you're planning on getting pregnant without discussing it with him, then yes, YABU.

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Blu · 18/06/2007 23:09

Um, a bit more than 'unreasonable', if you deliberately get pg without telling him what's happened!

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tinatantrum · 18/06/2007 23:10

I'm not sure I guess yes but he is a definate no.

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bookthief · 18/06/2007 23:10

If you're hoping to get pregnant and know he's not keen/haven't consulted him then absolutely yabvu. Sorry.

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unknownrebelbang · 18/06/2007 23:11

YABU.

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Blu · 18/06/2007 23:11

Don't do it.

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tinatantrum · 18/06/2007 23:11

I have warned him in the past that I'd trap him and I think he half expects it

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octo · 18/06/2007 23:11

blimey Bit mean not to tell him.

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sallyheartshapedstrawberry · 18/06/2007 23:11

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unknownrebelbang · 18/06/2007 23:12

trap him?

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toomanydaves · 18/06/2007 23:12

youare.

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octo · 18/06/2007 23:12

I retract that last statement - a bit mean is a bit of an understatement.

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tinatantrum · 18/06/2007 23:12

yabu - please explain I don't recognise abrieviation sorry!

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BrothelSprouts · 18/06/2007 23:12

You're kidding, surely?

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BrothelSprouts · 18/06/2007 23:13

YOU ARE BEING UNREASONABLE

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Blu · 18/06/2007 23:13

Oh, well get on with your own two games, then.
Conception is such a laugh, isn't it? Conceive a child, what's the difference, only another baby....

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unknownrebelbang · 18/06/2007 23:13

yabu - YOU ARE BEING UNREASONABLE.

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tinatantrum · 18/06/2007 23:13

I don't want to have an only child but I don't want to fight a fight with no compromise.

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flibbertyjibbet · 18/06/2007 23:13

I can't beleive you are actually thinking of not mentioning it. I didn't think the things could just fall out, are you going to tell us you have had it taken out deliberately and not going to tell him?
Outrageous. Deception. Entrapment.

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sallyheartshapedstrawberry · 18/06/2007 23:15

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BrothelSprouts · 18/06/2007 23:15

Did you not discuss how many children you would like before having the first one?

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cornsilk · 18/06/2007 23:15

If you're so desperate to be pregnant then you need to tell him that, not trick him into it.

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tinatantrum · 18/06/2007 23:16

I want 2 he wants to stick at 1 where do you go with that. I know I am being unreasonable but then surely so is he.....
I'm not a bitch and I'm not taking this lightly.

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Blu · 18/06/2007 23:16

I sympathise, TT, but you need to sort it out llike grown ups, Honestyly.

After all - grown ups tend to make the best parents.

tell him - and tell him how you feel.

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