Exp moved 250 miles away, not as soon as we split up but 2 years after. He comes up in the school holidays and collects his children, one with me, one from a previous relationship, has them for a week and brings them back.
He had just text me and said he hasn't the money to bring them home so can I lend him £100 for fuel.
He works full time, I work part time. He doesn't pay maintenance (something always comes up which means he can't afford it that month. He pays for his other child)
He does all of the journeys but it was his choice to move away. His parent moved and he followed them, he had a job etc in our area.
So AIBU to think I am a mug but really I have no choice but to give him the money. They are back to school on Monday and he doesn't get paid till Wednesday.
More of a rant really but so frustrated!
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To think I am a mug but pay this anyway...
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MrsNacho · 23/10/2018 12:27
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