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to be appalled that an NHS doctor is joking online about women smelling of fish

131 replies

Belonger · 15/10/2018 16:30

Online as well - on a global platform! This guy is surely discrediting the medical profession as well as the NHS, and god knows how his female patients would feel if they knew. He doesn't hide the fact that he works for the NHS and has 'Dr' in his twitter name.

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cathyandclare · 15/10/2018 17:37

He is a doctor. Doctors train for many years after qualification. Anyone that isn't a consultant, a staff grade or a GP is technically still a trainee. They're all doctors and many have extensive experience too.

cathyandclare · 15/10/2018 17:38

Doesn't stop them being an ignorant misogynist though!

Mrskeats · 15/10/2018 17:43

Have sent a copy for that to the GMC
He's a danger to women.

OlennasWimple · 15/10/2018 17:45

Dr Haddock
Dr Haddock
Dr Haddock
Dr Haddock
Dr Haddock

(He doesn't like it Wink )

simplysleepy · 15/10/2018 17:53

fish is a common way for gay men and drag queens refer to women

if anyone here has watched even 1 episode of RuPaul's drag race you will see the queens referring to each other as 'fishy' when they are all dolled up like women.
tbh I think the term started its life as being related to the smell, but no longer does in the wider community, the tweet posted above doesn't refer to smell at all? and I'm pretty sure the dr is saying people call him dr haddock bc he is gay and has feminine features

Oysterbabe · 15/10/2018 17:55

I don't see where he's saying anything about women smelling of fish.

placemats · 15/10/2018 17:56

I'll scold you.

It's a reference to silencing. A scold's bridle was an actual form of torture.

Women do not smell of fish. No man worth his salt would ever think such a thing about those women they love.

placemats · 15/10/2018 17:57

Oyster he's replying to a thread.

Where the words women, fish and smell are used.

He's a doctor in practice.

He's openly misogynist.

frumpety · 15/10/2018 17:59

I read the thread, where are people talking about women smelling of fish ?

placemats · 15/10/2018 18:03

See simplys post frumpety. These men know what they are talking about.

Though two of those are trans women.

Jane Fae

Aimee Challenor

Belonger · 15/10/2018 18:06

He does tell a whole group of women to themselves, no matter what the fish reference means

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Howsoon · 15/10/2018 18:07

He's been reported to the GMC has he?

RedPanda2 · 15/10/2018 18:08

Report him to the trust he works for, they will have values & behaviours they ask all staff to adhere to.

Howsoon · 15/10/2018 18:08

Yes and a social media policy!

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/10/2018 18:11

"fish is a common way for gay men and drag queens refer to women." - yes it is, and it is also breathtakingly misogynist and vile. It's not a harmless in-joke amongst men. Men cannot simply decide that it's not offensive to women any more.

RoboticSealpup · 15/10/2018 18:16

It's weird that there's this general acceptance that women's genitalia "smell like fish" given that men's and women's genitalia smell pretty similar. I don't know why I'm still surprised by this kind of double standard...

Artesia · 15/10/2018 18:17

Is puzzling anyway- if they believe trans women are women, why don’t Amy and Jane see this as directed at them? Or do they believe they aren’t the same as “other” women after all??

Sarahconnor1 · 15/10/2018 18:19

He's openly misogynist

This.

Fish is a vile way to refer to women and Dr Harrop knew exactly what he was referring to when he responded to this. His dislike of women is no longer thinly veiled its pretty clear.

TheWiseWomansFear · 15/10/2018 18:22

I'm not surprised tbh. My sister is a junior doctor, she says many of them are a bit misogynist (assuming she's not the R2 on call) or strange.

Shiklah · 15/10/2018 18:34

He is a GP. He is a disgrace.

A close friend suffers trimethylaminuria. He is literally taking the piss of a humiliating medical condition that stigmatise women, on twitter.

[email protected]

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 15/10/2018 18:37

Harrop is such a cliche - a gay man who hates women.

ToeToToe · 15/10/2018 18:38

He does not even try to hide his hatred of women.

I suspect he doesn't think he has to bother. Misogyny is de rigueur these days.

ToeToToe · 15/10/2018 18:39

I also suspect he's still somewhat smarting from his run in with posie. She wiped the floor with him.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 15/10/2018 18:41

I have complained to the GMC and suggest others do, too.

The email is [email protected].

steff13 · 15/10/2018 18:45

Will they take complaints from non-UK residents? I'm in the US, but I'm horrified by this.