In thinking having more than 5 sexual partners doesn't make you a raging whore bag?

[fifithefoof]

Following on from the last thread .....

[zukiecat]

I don't judge others and would never call anyone a "raging whorebag"

I'm 51, and my number is 3, I think that's high,

[ADastardlyThing]

Mines probably about 30? 40? Definitely a fair few

Enjoyed every one.

[fifithefoof]

@surferjet haha I got what you meant.

There can't be many men around (my age anyway) that have had 5 or less partners though. Unless they've been in a really long term relationship.

Can any men on here chip in? (That's the first time I've asked for a man's opinion on mn ).

[Strugglingtodomybest]

I haven't read the last thread, and judging from this one so far, I won't. I hate to see women buying into the misogynistic view that other women are just for enjoy their sexuality.

[MulticolourMophead]

Why brag about how many, i think id feel a bit ashamed of myself to have been with a hundred men. Who’d want to have such a cheap reputation.

What a misogynistic viewpoint. Why is it only mean who can have multiple partners without being judged for it? It goes right back to that crap idea that a woman's value is in her virginity.

NotNachoing I really like your post. I'm 50 and left my ex after far too may years together. He was my only notch on the bedpost, so once I feel ready, I'm getting myself some new action (safely, of course )

[twattymctwatterson]

It's sad to see women carrying so much internalised misogyny on this thread. Apparently it's still acceptable to see women as "lesser" if she behaves the same way men have behaved for centuries

[Grasse]

I read your original thread fifi and I don't judge. That's one thing I've learned on here.

What does it matter as long as the sex involved consenting adults?

[Gingerrogered]

5 partners makes you practically the Virgin Mary where I come from.

[Gingerrogered]

I'm 51, and my number is 3, I think that's high,

😳 Ooookay.

[chocsahoy]

Ah surely it's mostly just a function of how long single plus interested in sleeping with new people.

I had what would be thought of as a high number until I met DH 20+y ago and now time has passed and my number would not sound so outrageous though of course it hasn't gone down....

Also are you pulling in aldi is the funniest comment on this thread

[Gingerrogered]

Probably about 60 before the age of 21 and 2 in the 20 years since then.

Most STDs are minor and easily treatable. The serious ones are rare and generally quite difficult to pick up via PIV sex.

[ChiaraRimini]

If at the same time I'd like to shake you by the hand OP. Otherwise, sounds rather sheltered.

[thisneverendingsummer]

I haven't read the last thread, and judging from this one so far, I won't. I hate to see women buying into the misogynistic view that other women are just for enjoy their sexuality.

You don't have to shag multiple dozens of different people a year to 'enjoy your sexuality,' and saying that is just an excuse from people who want to be promiscuous and are looking for an excuse to justify it...

And yes I do judge people who shag 2 or 3 or more different people a week. But I judge women AND men. I think it's gross and icky, and so I am judgemental. What of it?

What a misogynistic viewpoint. Why is it only mean who can have multiple partners without being judged for it? It goes right back to that crap idea that a woman's value is in her virginity.

As I said, I judge men as badly as I judge women. I am also willing to bet that the women who are SO proud of shagging around, don't brag about it in real life, because they know they'll be judged. Despite all the bravado on here, about how liberating it is, and how they are 'merely enjoying their sexuality;' they would never brag about it in real life.

How many WOMEN do you hear - in real life - bragging about fucking 3 or 4 or more different men every week? I'll tell ya... NONE. No woman does that. Men do. But then, it's a badge of honour (for men) to fuck lots of women. Not so much for women to fuck lots of different men - despite what some women on here are trying to claim...

@MultiColouredMophead

I'm 50 and left my ex after far too many years together. He was my only notch on the bedpost, so once I feel ready, I'm getting myself some new action (safely, of course )

But why? Why the desperation to go and shag as many men as possible now? What are you trying to prove? And what do you think you will achieve? And where are you going to find all these men to shag you?

The posters on here who have had many sexual partners can deny it all they like, but there is an air of 'men do it, so why shouldn't I?' in their posts. And they seem to be rather proud of all the men they have fucked.... There is nothing for them to be proud of. It doesn't mean they're clever, or special, or more attractive or pretty if lots of men shag them. To be honest I find it quite sad, because there is clearly something missing from their life.

Also agree with a pp that you are putting yourself at risk of disease and even worse. No matter how 'safe' you think you are being.

[DoYouLikeBasghetti]

What do you think you will achieve?
Lots of sex lol.
Some people just really like sex.

[StrawberrySquash]

Sleeping with lots of people is fine, not sleeping with lots of people is fine. So long as it's all consensual etc. Some people only want sex with a person they have a strong emotional connection with and some of those will take a long time to build that connection. Some people sex doesn't have all the same preconditions. People just vary.
Maybe it's the circles I move in but I also see plenty of men being judged for the number of partners they've had. Those men are sometimes seen as using women/not able to make a proper commitment. Sometimes those things will be true too.
None of which is to say that people don't sometimes have sex for the wrong reasons. If you're constantly doing it to feel good about yourself because it means someone wants you then that wouldn't be healthy past a certain point. But lots of non sexual behaviour is like that, it's all dependent on context.

[thisneverendingsummer]

As I said @strawberrysquash I judge men who fuck multiple dozens of different people a year, as much as I judge women who do it. It's icky and gross whoEVER does it IMO.

[JacquesHammer]

The biggest eye opener on this thread are is there are adults who use the word “icky”.

[CarlsRightEye]

I'm definitely a whore bag then! 🤣

[jane251]

Good on you if you could find so many people attractive. I was always hampered by wanting an amazing entente with whoever I went to bed with. Wish there had been hundreds. As it was if I found somebody suitable, which happened once in a blue moon, I would practically throw myself at them-often making a complete fool of myself.

[DioneTheDiabolist]

Why the desperation to go and shag as many men as possible now?
She didn't say she was going to shag as many men as possible. You're making that up. Also she said that she would have a sex life when she felt ready. How is that desperation?
And what do you think you will achieve?
I would assume some orgasms. Orgasms are brilliant!

What are you trying to achieve through your posts on this topic thisneverendingsummer? Because it looks like slut shaming women for wanting, enjoying and talking about sex.

[thisneverendingsummer]

@DioneTheDiabolist

What are you trying to achieve through your posts on this topic thisneverendingsummer? Because it looks like slut shaming women for wanting, enjoying and talking about sex.

I am not on about people TALKING about sex, I am on about people shagging around with lots of different partners. Stop making stuff up to suit your agenda. And I don't judge just women Dione, I judge MEN too. As I said, don't make stuff up!

And so what if I am judging people? I am entitled to my opinions, and to think what I like about people, whether you like it or not.

thisneverendingsummer

And what do you think shagging loads of different people will achieve?

Dinonthediabolest

I would assume some orgasms. Orgasms are brilliant!

Wow is that all you've got?

You can have an orgasm with having sex with just one man - and you can even have them by yourself . No need to shag multiple dozens of different men. Good effort, but you need to try harder.

It's all icky, yukky, and ewwwwww..

Especially for @JacquesHammer

[thisneverendingsummer]

@DioneTheDiabolist

What are you trying to achieve through your posts on this topic thisneverendingsummer? Because it looks like slut shaming women for wanting, enjoying and talking about sex.

I am not on about people wanting, enjoying, or TALKING about sex, I am on about people shagging around with lots of different partners. Stop making stuff up to suit your agenda. And I don't judge just women Dione, I judge MEN too. As I said, don't make stuff up!

And so what if I am judging people? I am entitled to my opinions, and to think what I like about people, whether you like it or not.

thisneverendingsummer

And what do you think shagging loads of different people will achieve?

Dinonthediabolest

I would assume some orgasms. Orgasms are brilliant!

Wow is that all you've got?

You can have an orgasm with having sex with just one man - and you can even have them by yourself . wink No need to shag multiple dozens of different men. Good effort, but you need to try harder.

It's all icky, yukky, and ewwwwww..

Especially for @JacquesHammer

[JohnMcCainsDeathStare]

Am I wrong in thinking that RagingWhoreBag would be an awesome band name?

[RomanyRoots]

Only misogynists worry about how much sex their oh had in the past.

My dh has had 3 and I'm one of those. I on the other hand..... lost count.
It never worried my dh, we've been together 30 years.

[JacquesHammer]

You can have an orgasm with having sex with just one man - and you can even have them by yourself

I have a FWB. Fits the above criteria smashingly without the need for a relationship. Everyone is happy.