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AIBU?

In thinking having more than 5 sexual partners doesn't make you a raging whore bag?

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fifithefoof · 14/10/2018 00:43

Following on from the last thread .....

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Aintnothingbutaheartache · 14/10/2018 00:44

Of course it doesn’t, what a strange question

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fifithefoof · 14/10/2018 00:46

This is a follow on thread from

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am iibeingunreasonable/3389375-not-remembering-how-many-people-i-ve-slept-with

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fifithefoof · 14/10/2018 00:48

@Aintnothingbutaheartache you'll see.

More than a couple of partners is 'grim, disgusting, yuk, icky, vile, against feminism, revolting' and many other lovely terms that have been thrown against women who decide they'd like a varied sex life.

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SusanneLinder · 14/10/2018 00:49

Well if it does, there are a fuck load of whore bags out there.
It has been 30 plus years since I reached the age of consent. 5 partners in 30 plus years would make me practically a virgin..

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AllTheChocolateMice · 14/10/2018 00:52

I don’t care what other people think about how many sexual partners I’ve had. Why are so many people bothered about that sort of stuff. Grim , revolting and against feminism ? Fuck right off with that crap 😳

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Tomatoesrock · 14/10/2018 00:52

Definitely not. I didn't have many one night stands but a few and a few relationships it was definitely over 5 even 15

I do not agree with answering any of these questions if a guy ask, as they're usually looking to judge. DP has never asked.

Why do you ask? Did someone say it makes a raging whore. It is horrible to think anyone is a raging whore even if they screwed the entire planet.

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Tomatoesrock · 14/10/2018 00:53

Oh I see.

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KlutzyDraconequus · 14/10/2018 00:54

I think I've had less than 10 sexual partners. For a 40 year old man I guess thats not many.
But it's no one's business but mine and I'm fine with it.

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GreenLantern53 · 14/10/2018 00:55

my friend asked me how many people i had slept with the other day, thought it was abit odd tbh. didnt think people cared about this sort of stuff at almost 30.

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SandyY2K · 14/10/2018 00:55

Of course not...but it's nobody else's business.

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Mrsharrison · 14/10/2018 00:57

Yes you're a whorebag. But you're not as bad as me. I'm going to hell due to my discrepancies on the man front.

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MelonBuffet · 14/10/2018 00:58

That makes me about 4 raging whore bags then

My DP has made a point of saying he doesn’t want to know my number - he’s scared of how high it might be as I’m so good at it

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autumndreaming · 14/10/2018 00:59

I don't know why anyone is bothered who anyone else has slept with surely whether you've slept with 1 person or 100 hasn't got anything to do with feminism?

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thisneverendingsummer · 14/10/2018 01:01

What amazes me is how some women seem to be very vocal about utterly proud they are that they have shagged more than 100 men, like it's so liberating, and they are sooooo free-living and chilled, coz they fuck who the hell they want... Sometimes 2 or 3 men a week, and sometimes 2 or 3 at a time, and why shouldn't they?

'Just coz we're wimmin we can't fuck and fuck who we want???!!!. And 'we WILL fuck loads of men a week coz we can!!!!' yawn

And they act like they are better and 'more adventurous' and lead a more exciting life than other women, because they have shagged multiple dozens of men.

Same as the ones who are very vocal about how much they love anal sex. Oh so liberating and adventurous with an AMAZING sex life, and 'sticking it to the patriarchy' with all the wild and crazy sex they have with soooooo many men.

YAWN No one cares, and you are no better than women who DON'T do anal, and who have shagged less than 10 men. So bore off.

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BiscuitsAndGravy · 14/10/2018 01:05

I genuinely don't know how many people I've had sex with...and I don't feel like a slag. I just enjoy sex.

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MrsStrowman · 14/10/2018 01:10

I lost my virginity eighteen nearly nineteen years ago, given I didn't get hitched at 18 my number was always going to be more than five 😂

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Rebecca36 · 14/10/2018 01:24

Most people would have more than five.

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dawnmist · 14/10/2018 01:30

Why brag about how many, i think id feel a bit ashamed of myself to have been with a hundred men. Who’d want to have such a cheap reputation.

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HaroldsSocalledBluetits · 14/10/2018 01:39

The only thing that "makes" a woman a whore is if she has sex for money. And even then it isn't a very nice way to talk about someone who is doing what she does very likely not through choice or at least as a less than top ten choice in terms of life goals. Using the word to describe any consensual choices that a woman makes about who she has sex with is inaccurate.

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slimjemima · 14/10/2018 01:42

I guess there is nothing objectively wrong with many partners, but I think the society we are in judges such females as having lower standards , desperate for attention/affection havin low self esteem and sense of self worth.

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Ollivander84 · 14/10/2018 01:47

Of course it doesn't. You could be into kink or go to a swingers club and rack up a number of 3/4/5/6 in a night!
Sex doesn't = love for me or anything, it's just sex as in a physical act. I don't have to love someone or be mega close to them to have great sex with them
It's probably caught up with the thoughts that we all want to secretly settle down and find "the one"

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RonaldMcDonald · 14/10/2018 01:58

TAAT yabu

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Oswin · 14/10/2018 01:59

Why are women so angry with other women who have a lot of sex. Is it age maybe? People my age just don't care.
Or something else?
It's fucked up, internal misogyny.

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