To ask what you find yourself thinking about during sex?

[milkytea]

I think im a proper weirdo, hoping im not the only one though. For some unknown reason, I always find mind wandering to horses pulling carriages and I haven't the slightest clue why. And then im their thinking 'oh ffs, you're having sex stop thinking about horses!!'

Please tell me im not the only one

Light-hearted

And by I hope im not the only one, I mean not the only one who's mind wanders. Not that thinks about horses. I think that's probably just me

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I can't think of a single thing to say.

@maggiesimpsonspacifier oh god no!

Wow nothing else to say really

This is reassuring
-climbs into a hole, never to be found again-

I'll throw a rope for you OP

I do occasionally, I feel rather bad because DP really is talented and enthusiastic it's just that I have a bit of an odd brain and I'll randomly think about a scene in a film or a bit in a book

Have no idea why as I am usually thoroughly enjoying myself but take comfort you are not alone

Except on the horses thing

Have never thought about horses

At the forefront of my mind is whether the teenager in the next room can hear us (It's not generally conducive to a good time!)

Apparently Catherine the Great sometimes thought of horses...I think that was the rumour!

Wayne, she was the first thing that came into my mind

I don't think you are alone in thinking of random stuff, OP

I heard she didn't just THINK of horses but.... Ewwwww.. ..

I lie back and think of England....

Yellow. I always think about the colour yellow.

Shopping lists, tv shows I want to watch, tv shows I am watching, sometimes I draft reports for work.... I don't have a great sex life, ngl

Idris Elba!!

Oh, my mind always wanders but then recognising that and trying to pull it back is the most distracting thing I find... If you're thinking 'dont think of horses, DON'T think of horses' well then, you're thinking about horses aren't you op?

Stop it. Just let your mind go where it goes!

Or Pasha from Strictly.

Hope he pulls out.

If its any consolation OP my mind wanders all over the shop during sex. Once when I was astride my then BF I suddenly recalled finding a shit in a sock at a music festival.

When I am really enjoying myself I do get random flashes of things in my brain. Usually times I have been happy, not sex stuff. Is this what you mean - not active thoughts but very subconscious?

Usually just wondering if the baby is going to wake up.

im a bit weird as I think of the doctor sewing me up!! it reminds of that illfated night.but it works for me.
told you I was weird.

The other day I started thinking about a plot hole in Gavin and Stacey. I don’t know why, it wasn’t bad or anything it just popped into my head

During sex - I worry about how much noise were making as don't want DS waking up!

Funny how some things are linked to others in your mind. Whenever I pencil my eyebrows I think about Denise & Kush from Eastenders. I think one time I was doing my makeup while watching Eastenders before going out, so that's what my mind associates with it now! Every bloody time!