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To still be annoyed that Hermione married Ron?

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ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 21:48

I know, the last book came out years ago, but I’m re-reading them now with DS and it’s got me annoyed all over again. He’s a mediocre, sulky man-child, while she’s a brilliantly talented witch. Why would she ever marry him?!

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Newyoiker · 14/09/2018 12:57

I have found my people!!

user199714 · 14/09/2018 22:37

I ve just spent three days reading The Problem with Purity fanfic mentioned on this thread and it is amazing, much better than the real final book! Definitely recommend!

GinaCarbonara · 14/09/2018 22:52

Does anyone know of a really good Ginny fic? Book Ginny, obviously. So much of it is just rubbish.

TomPinch · 15/09/2018 05:38

To return to the ethnicity of Hermione:

Something strikes me as slightly patronising in saying that "well, Hermione can be non-white if that's how you want to imagine her". It's a little bit "yes, dear". I find JKL's reaction a bit off for similar reasons. I don't expect that she gave Hermione's ethnicity any thought and therefore - because of her own background - imagined her as white by default. Her response when the issue was raised suggested as if she thought she'd better get with the programme, and so it seems disingenuous to me.

For myself, the reason why I roll my eyes a little at the issue is because it's as if some people want one of the main protagonists of the book to be non-white in order to make things fair. In my view, they have alighted on Hermione because it clearly isn't possible to do the same with Harry or Ron because they are more completely described. I wonder if, in time, someone will point out that it also isn't fair that of the three main protagonists two are male and only one female, and therefore one of them - presumably Harry - must identify as non-binary in order to even things up, as there's nothing in the book to prevent this conclusion.

What matters is what JKR wrote in the book, and those who say Hermione can be imagined as not white are asking everyone else to ignore her description in the book as pointed out above.

There are probably a good many people - and to be honest I am one - who read books like Harry Potter in order to escape the real world, and who therefore don't apprciate the real world intervening in the form of identify politics.

There's a much better non-white protagonist in A Wizard of Earthsea anyway.

GinUnicorn · 15/09/2018 08:08

Can anyone link the problem with purity fan fix? I tried to google and couldn’t find.

OkMaybeNot · 15/09/2018 10:53

Eyebrows Watson

GrinGrinGrin

Eyebrows Watson should be a drinking game. Every time her eyebrows wobble out of control you take a shot.

GinUnicorn · 15/09/2018 11:05

Thank you!!

QuimReaper · 15/09/2018 11:10

OKMaybe Grin

Could we have half-measures for every time she either enormously over-pronounces a word, or gushes breathlessly through a line so quickly you haven't the faintest idea what she said?

TheBeatGoesOnandOn · 15/09/2018 12:54

With those who said Ron is quite stupid, I don't think he is. I just think he doesn't apply himself. A bit like Fred and George he's not an academic and he's rather do practical things.

Let's not forget though that he did come up with some great ideas.
Using feliz to get Slughorn to talk and coping up with the idea of using the basilisk fang to destroy the Horcrux and still remembering Harry saying it in his sleep.

I honestly think it's that his older brothers overshadowed him and his best friends were the smartest witch and the famous Harry Potter. So he just didn't bother trying to prove himself.
I'm going to read that fanfic it sounds amazing.

LadyTmalia · 15/09/2018 17:53

TheHulksPurplePanties

Only half way through the thread, but had to stop and post. Your post was so mind blowing :) I always kind of liked Snape on the Second or Third re-reading, but your post takes it to a whole new level
#Mindblown! :D

FrustratedTeddyLamp · 16/09/2018 01:55

Off topic a little but im reading the books again and its dawned on me at the end of the year the houses have a couple 100 points. In chamber of secrets first lesson Hermione has already been given 20 points. Do they just become extra tight considering its over a year and 7 years of students?

FrustratedTeddyLamp · 16/09/2018 03:07

Infact shes juat got 10 more on the first day!

TheHulksPurplePanties · 16/09/2018 04:44

LadyTmalia

Thank you :) As you can see I have far too much time on my hands. Snape is such a polarizing character, that its fun to talk about him.

TheHulksPurplePanties · 16/09/2018 04:55

Came across this on another forum. This would have been a far better ending than the crappy epilogue.

To still be annoyed that Hermione married Ron?
TheHulksPurplePanties · 16/09/2018 04:58

Sorry there are more bits!

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TheHulksPurplePanties · 16/09/2018 04:59

I don't think I quite got it in order, but you get the gist.

To still be annoyed that Hermione married Ron?
actualpuffins · 16/09/2018 05:04

Ron isn't a "man-child", he's an actual child/teenager in the book. All the characters are flawed in some way. I would have been really disappointed if he and Hermione hadn't got together.

AppleKatie · 16/09/2018 07:18

Do they just become extra tight considering its over a year and 7 years of students?

No, I think it’s that the teachers take away almost as many points as they give. It’s pretty much their own form of dicipline- they seem to actual speak with students about once a year!

Loving the fan fic recommendations and the alternative epilogue upthread. For my part ‘Harry Crowe’ by Robst is a great if (very!) long read!

ThomasRichard · 17/09/2018 21:03

@Thomasrichardsmum what a coincidence! My username doesn’t allude to anyone famous / dodgy. I wanted TomDickandHarry but it was taken so I chose ThomasRichard instead.

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CasanovaFrankenstein · 24/09/2018 16:57

Read (admit skimming) The Problem with Purity, some great ideas but there’s so much wrong with it! Going to give The Politician’s Wife a go now! Thanks for recommendations people!

IAmWhoYouSayIAm · 24/09/2018 22:03

CasanovaFrankenstein I read The Politicans Wife following the recommendation on here.... it’s brilliant! Couldn’t put it down. You’re in for a treat!

TheSeasonOfTheWitch · 25/09/2018 19:59

Just read The Politican's Wife, and The Problem with Purity, thanks to these recommendations! Both brilliant!

Can anyone recommend any more?

TheSeasonOfTheWitch · 08/10/2018 13:19

I have been researching some more fanfics, and found this one if anyone's interested, would highly recommend it
m.fanfiction.net/s/7448313/1/

IAmWhoYouSayIAm · 10/10/2018 22:04

Thanks Season. Starting it tonight!

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