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To still be annoyed that Hermione married Ron?

525 replies

ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 21:48

I know, the last book came out years ago, but I’m re-reading them now with DS and it’s got me annoyed all over again. He’s a mediocre, sulky man-child, while she’s a brilliantly talented witch. Why would she ever marry him?!

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shakeyourcaboose · 08/09/2018 22:10

@thegirlwholived wtf! The Titanic sinks?? That's my Sunday dvd night spoiled! Grin

TheIncredibleBookEatingManchot · 08/09/2018 22:10

I always thought she would end up with either Fred or George.

They seemed to admire her for her intelligence, and even though on the surface they were class clown types they were actually very hard working, clever and ambitious, setting up their own successful company selling their own inventions. I think their work ethic and the fact that they were good, brave people would have appealed to Hermione, and their sense of humour would have been a good balance to her studiousness.

RedDwarves · 08/09/2018 22:10

Not as annoyed as I am that Luna and Neville never ended up together.

Pringlecat · 08/09/2018 22:10

I never thought it was unrealistic they would get married. But I thought it was unrealistic they never got swiftly divorced.

drinkswineoutofamug · 08/09/2018 22:11

I am sure she still sends the occasional owl to victor Krum. Reminiscing about the old days at the tri-wizard ball. Oh hermoine , you could of been a quidditch WAG

ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 22:12

Oh gosh yes, Charlie was the Weasley for me Grin

I’m surprised how many people like Ron! He was my least-favourite character because he was just so annoying. Always sulking or moaning or being cruel to someone. Not nice, loyal, steady or dependable and really a bit dim. Who would want to marry the guy who copied your homework for 6 years?

Sorry for the spoiler LaBella. Darcy and Elizabeth get married too!

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ChinUpShouldersBack · 08/09/2018 22:13

It won't last.
She's 'settled' because he's a safe replacement for her lost family. She thinks he'll never leave her. She doesn't love him but thinks he loves her so much that it'll be enough.
Eventually he'll come to sense this gap but not be able to articulate it even to himself. Because at heart he's an inadequate entitled man child with a 'not good enough' schema, he'll cheat on her with some younger dumb ass witch from Hufflepuff who'll think he's chocolate and massage his ego.
Hermione will get over it, dust herself off and stride into her magnificent future.

FairNotFair · 08/09/2018 22:13

Gah, where was the spoiler alert?! I never read them myself and I’m on book 4 with DS. Can’t believe I’ve got to keep this secret now!!

Wait - there's a 4th book???!! Thanks a LOT LaBella - feeling totally triggered now

Awrite · 08/09/2018 22:15

Grin at totally unrealistic - it's a book about wizards. That did make me chuckle.

Amanduh · 08/09/2018 22:16

Yabvu in calling Ron mediocre, a man child (what at 17?) or dim!

ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 22:17

Hermione said she’d find her parents and reverse the memory charm if they got rid of Voldemort, so I’m sure they’re around. Probably disappointed in their daughter’s choice of husband Wink

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twattymctwatterson · 08/09/2018 22:17

Spoiler alert; Luke and Leah are brother and sister

LouHotel · 08/09/2018 22:17

Completely disagree, Hermione throughout the books was a star, she would never have thrived in a relationship with a Harry or a Krum where her intellectual goals would have to compete with their sport/adventurous ones.

100% Ron will be the main care giver in their family allowing her to pursue her career. Nothing wrong with that.

I was fuming with JK for saying she regrets their future.

TheIncredibleBookEatingManchot · 08/09/2018 22:17

RedDwarves I always like to think that Neville and Luna did get together. I know she's not mentioned in the 19 years later bit, but I still imagine that she's married to Neville and living with him at Hogwarts when she's not off observing snorkacks etc in the wild as research for the books and articles she writes.

shakeyourcaboose · 08/09/2018 22:18

And witches Awrite! And unicorns, dragons, centaurs, lovely massive dogs.... So over invested!!

ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 22:19

17 is a man in the wizarding world! And whatever the word is for someone who expects everything to be done for him and complains but doesn’t come up with his own ideas.

I’m ready to be impressed with his secret brilliance though. Yes, he’s good at chess. So is my 8yo DS.

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Fieau · 08/09/2018 22:19

@ThomasRichard who would want to marry the guy who copied your homework for 6 years

I have actually ended up marrying the guy who copied my homework for six years.... I always say I should have double the number of GCSEs on my CV because I did all his work as well as my own Grin

And to the poster who said Luna and Neville don't end up together..... Don't they??? I'm sure they do. They have to!

Cuddlykitten123 · 08/09/2018 22:19

Ron is loyal and has a lovely family. Not sure that would be enough for someone like Hermione long term though.

But I agree the last chapter was not the best. where are all the young wild post Hogwarts/war years stories; like Deans family throwing him a muggle 18th birthday, cue drunk wizards apperating into clubs and trying to pay for kebabs with gold...

ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 22:20

Ron became an auror though. Not really a SAHP role. I imagine Molly Weasley doing a lot of childcare.

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ThomasRichard · 08/09/2018 22:21

Fieau did you? 😂 Are you H...?

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Quartz2208 · 08/09/2018 22:21

Hate to break it but Neville marries Hannah Abbott and Luna marries Newt Scamander's grandson and has twin boys

BoneyBackJefferson · 08/09/2018 22:22

Ron was one of the few characters in the books that wasn't completely annoying.

Evenmycurveshavecurves · 08/09/2018 22:22

She only settled because Snape died. Retreats to corner

LegallyBrunet · 08/09/2018 22:23

No, Neville married Hannah Abbott and Luna married Newt Scamander’s great grandson

SchadenfreudePersonified · 08/09/2018 22:23

Oh, and the titanic sunk. Jack didn’t make it- soz

WHAT?!

Nobody tells me anything. Angry