Why the hell did you post on here if you were going to call people who didn't agree with you and pander to your whims, and fawn over you, 'bitter' and 'sour' and 'weird? 
I think your dad giving you money against your mum's wishes is actually awful, and does not show their relationship in a good light.
I also think it's very odd that you supposedly earn £40K and yet daddy keeps shoving little £200 pocket money gifts into your hand.
Most self respecting independent adults in their mid 20's would NEVER keep taking cash gifts from daddy for naff-all when they have their own job and income. It's just bizarre! As a pp said, he is infantilising you, and you are CLEARLY struggling to grow up. 
Why do you take it? Knowing it upsets your mum, and when you have got your own perfectly decent wage?
You must know on some level, that YABU, or you would not have posted here.
Your mum has got your number, and that is why she is pissed off at the handouts.
@ShumpaLumpa
You ARE expecting money though. Everytime you tell your dad about an expensive course or tenancy fees, you are expecting a handout.
I do think that you are poor at money management if you are earning £40k and need help with £200 every few months, even in London.
And you talk about not expecting money from your parents as if you deserve a medal.
This. ^
Upshot is @Ohsaycanusee - you sound very childish and entitled.
@tinstar
Don't you know op that, on Mumsnet, dcs are meant to pay rent from their first paper round, fund themselves through university and never ever expect any financial help from their parents? Those of us that don't abide by those rules are raising feckless, entitled, profligate people with zero ability to manage their own finances.
Oh don't talk such bloody drivel. The OP's situation, is in NO way the same as a parent helping their struggling uni-student offspring! She has her own money (and a good wage!) and still takes handouts from daddy.
Now THAT is weird!