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Do you regret your tattoos

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Moominfan · 10/08/2018 16:24

Been wanting a tattoo for years but I know I'm a fickle soul. I'll go through a phase of wanting a certain theme and it passes. I'd like a tattoo for a tattoos sake, but would hate to regret it. Does anyone regret their tattoos how long did you wait until you decided on one?

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WaitrosePigeon · 11/08/2018 12:43

I’m very glad and relieved to hear that some people don’t judge me. Thank you.

CookPassBabtridge · 11/08/2018 12:44

I never had one but just commenting as I know I would be regretting it now as my tastes change all the time.

BanginChoons · 11/08/2018 12:56

@WaitrosePigeon, I'm a tattooed HCP too. I don't feel people judge me, not on my appearance anyway. I'm pretty sure they are more bothered by the quality of care I can provide.

I know that some staff can be shallow/judgemental but I refuse to let them make me feel inferior.

What has made you feel this way?

TheHobbitMum · 11/08/2018 13:00

Nope not at all, I'll be extending to a full back piece and sleeve over the next year. I've definitely got the tattoo bug Grin

FrayedHem · 11/08/2018 13:03

There was a HCP with tattoos in the room when I had my EMCS with DS2. I can't remember what his job was(!), but I do remember feeling comforted by the sight of his tattoos.

starzig · 11/08/2018 13:17

They need to invent temporary tattoos that last for 6 months or something. This is about how long a tattoo idea runs with me before in change my mind.

PrincessIsAUnicorn · 11/08/2018 14:55

No, I have 2 and still love them. I have Eeyore on my right (inside) hip and and anklet on my right ankle and my sons initial coming off of it.
I looked up pictures of tattoos I liked off the internet, saved them to my phone, kept looking at them every couple of weeks and deleting the ones that I went off of, after a year I was left with just one photo, which I left on for another 6 months, still liked it so went to my friends tattooist who liked my idea, booked me in and it was on my ankle 4 weeks later. I'd never get a spur of the moment tattoo, I think I'd regret it. I would love to have at least 2 more, but it's the money that stops me, although I know exactly what I'd like 🙃

Crushcuz · 11/08/2018 15:15

I just love how the rudest, insulting, ignorant and highly judgmental comments on here are all from non-tattooed folk Smile

Don't regret any of mine.

JustGettingStarted · 11/08/2018 16:41

I have a tattoo covering my entire body and face. The design is of negative space.

It's increasingly rare to see someone else with the same.

No regrets.

Lilyhatesjaz · 11/08/2018 18:31

I don't have any tattoos and wouldn't want any but some times I notice nice ones on other people. There was a girl serving in the pub with a really beautiful design of flowers like dandelions on her arm in really nice colours. I wanted to look more closely but didn't want to be rude.

Moominfan · 11/08/2018 19:30

I just air their responses crash, nobody asked them :)

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Moominfan · 11/08/2018 19:31

What's hcp frayed?

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FrayedHem · 11/08/2018 19:35

Health Care Professional

PolytheneSam · 11/08/2018 20:23

It's a fad, like Pokémon or foxtrot. Look at pictures of celebrities or your parents of 20+ years ago and you'll see no one with a tattoo in the western world.

Unlike Pokémon or a bad hairstyle you won't be able to casually dispose of it in a decade or so and claim "oh no I never fell for it".

JacquesHammer · 11/08/2018 20:24

Look at pictures of celebrities or your parents of 20+ years ago and you'll see no one with a tattoo in the western world

Um....yeah you do.

YeTalkShiteHen · 11/08/2018 20:24

PolytheneSam tell that to the old soldiers covered in tattoos I looked after in care homes!

BanginChoons · 11/08/2018 20:59

Look at pictures of celebrities or your parents of 20+ years ago and you'll see no one with a tattoo in the western world

Erm.. I had my first tattoo 20 years ago!

Pebbles16 · 11/08/2018 21:47

Mine is tiny and well hidden. I sometimes surprise myself when I see it. And it reminds me of younger times. So all good

Fabricwitch · 11/08/2018 21:58

I don't regret any of mine.

IllBeAtTheBarIfYouNeedMe · 11/08/2018 22:02

Although I may not love each tattoo I have, each one tells a story. Tbf I only have one that I’m not keen on (because they got it wrong and I was too drunk to notice immediately) but I don’t regret it/then

PolytheneSam · 12/08/2018 15:15

Vietnam US soildiers.

As you can see they are full of tattoos goo.gl/images/5dJY3z

Same thing for sports or entertainment: compare pictures 20+ years to now and you can see that tattoos were a rarity. Now it's difficult to find any contemporary celebrity without one.

England 1990 squad goo.gl/images/bEhRpp

England 2018 goo.gl/images/ybh3sE

I would recommend against anything permanent because you don't know how you will feel 20 years from now and how fashion will have developed.

WhirlyGigWhirlyGig · 12/08/2018 15:37

Honestly yes I do regret them. I am thankful however that I didn't have them anywhere visible to others.

dustarr73 · 12/08/2018 18:44

would recommend against anything permanent because you don't know how you will feel 20 years from now

Do you include your kids in that( lighthearted)

sayanythingelse · 12/08/2018 20:11

I'm quite heavily tattooed and in some ways I do regret them when it comes to my professional life. I've never had an employer tell me to cover up my tattoos but I do worry that I'll be less favoured in interviews.

Tattoos are definitely more commonplace now though. As little as 5 years ago, I'd get alot of comments from strangers asking me what my tattoos were, did they have meaning, where I got them done, etc. Now no one gives a shiny shit, I can't remember the last time anyone even took notice of my tattoos Grin

NotUmbongoUnchained · 12/08/2018 20:15

Don’t regret any of mine and neither does my husband.

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