Do you have any plans to separate from him? You've repeteadly vented on here about his treatment, you know he's treating you badly and you seem to be getting something out of other posters validating this for you, yet you haven't once expressed any desire to end the relationship.
I don't understand. It seems you are the victim in your relationship, yet you aren't trying to escape that role, and it reads as if you are even savouring it somewhat? It seems, from this thread, that you have the means to leave - you were able to book a foreign holiday with lots of extra activities on a whim, plus flights abroad to your parents, plus a meal out with a friend - so I'm assuming you are financially independent from him and also not struggling for cash. You only rent, so aren't tied together by sharing ownership of a house. You are employed. You don't have kids together. Those are the things that normally make people stay in unhappy relationships, but you don't have any of those obstacles... So what is holding you back from leaving him and getting your own place?
There is something else, deeper, going on here. Your constant engaging with him by text when you should've been enjoying your holiday, and the tone of your posts here, it all reads as if you are locked in this martyrish, put-upon role, but also not wanting or trying to escape it. You seem trapped, and I don't just mean in the relationship.
I don't know anything about you beyond this post, but have you ever had therapy? I really think you could benefit from talking through things with someone objective.