Mature escort

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Just after people's opinions on how they'd feel living opposite a very busy adult escort. Living in a quiet cul de sac but our house is the only one that would directly be able to see what's going on (worked it out when off on maternity leave before baby was here, lots of time on my hands!)

I work closely with HMRC, shall I bring them in too 😏

vashna - I sincerely hope you were never a social worker. The way you write leaves me extremely concerned about the fate of anybody who moved in who you also took a dislike to. Immigrants, single mothers, gay couples.??? Are you also going to try and drive them out too?

Vashna's husband might not be getting his five a day

Don’t be so ridiculous. Yes I’m against prostitution in principle. As if that has anything whatsoever to do with my views on immigrants or single mothers. Utter nonsense.

It would bother me. I wouldnt be bothered about her, just her clients.

I do feel a bit sorry for the OP....she has not expressed some of the attitudes that we’ve seen in this thread. I think a lot of people are confused about prostitution and the law about it.... and some of the legal terms are a bit archaic. However, this lady is ( based on the information given) not doing anything wrong.... even the fruit based sex acts. If there is a nuisance with the parking then the OP should go and discuss it with her. If having read this you still feel you want to drive her out or hound the police to take action ( despite there being no offences) then you might want to think about why you feel so strongly about it. There really are so many more important things in the world to get upset about.

@Vashna
Yes I’m against prostitution in principle
Why? It has existed throughout human history. Males have evolved to be driven by the pursuit of sexual variety. Females have evolved to be discerning in their choice of mate. Perfect logical sense given that femaleshe can only have one pregnancy at a time and need to invest far more physically and emotionally in the propagation of the species. Males only need to invest a few seconds and a tiny quantity of tissue before moving on to the next possibility.... That's the facts of life.

In all human society throughout recorded history this disparity between demand and supply has meant that sex has been exchanged for money or other forms of payment.

Being against prostitution "in principle" is like being against the moon in principle. The moon doesn't care about your principles and will continue for evermore.

Francine - So if your husband was discovered to have a prostitute habit would you say, “Oh yes, go for it DH. After all, I can only cope with one pregnancy at a time and it’s just that old demand and supply thing after all...”

I actually think this is a thread of loons and I’m not sure if any of it is genuine.

Paedophilia is another sexual urge that has existed since the beginning of time and no doubt always will. Shall we compare the principle of being against that to the moon as well?

What does the moon have to do with the price of fish fgs?

I had the prostitution debate on an AMA thread recently and I don’t have the energy to go there again. I suspect some people get off on women debating the ins and outs prostitution tbh.

So if your husband was discovered to have a prostitute habit would you say....
No I'd say what a waste of money.

Paedophilia is another sexual urge that has existed since the beginning of time and no doubt always will.
Civilised societies have instituted laws to protect children. The needs of the vulnerable come first so the law decrees at what age they are deemed to be able to give consent. Below this - it is, quite rightly, a criminal offence.

What does the moon have to do with the price of fish fgs
It was a metaphor - as is "the price of fish".

We had this on our street a few years ago. It really bothered me because there was a stream of shady men walking up and down the street, sometimes mistaking our house for hers. It was really grim.
For those saying it wouldn't bother me, it's her business etc... maybe you need one next door and then you'll change your mind.

by whatever means necessary

Someone’s been watching too many Hollywood movies 😂

I think the woman's website "quote" is rather juvenile and I also cannot find it but still it gave me a good laugh

It's terribly sad that a woman feels that she has been left with no option but to be abused by men for money. For all the lib fems who are going to support this abuse and defend a "woman's right' to be raped for cash you are deluded.
It is incredibly sad that this woman has no option but to have a succession of abusive and entitled men visit her home in order to empty their bollocks. I hope it is not too long before she has some other choices.
No women choose this unless we are desperate and can see no other option.

“No I’d say it was a waste of money”.

Yes Francine. More importantly, there may be tax implications.

"Raped for cash" because you can't believe that a woman actually enjoys sex, or enjoys sex with regular and random partners AND happens to get paid from it?

Are you seriously so blinkered by the bad sides of the industry that it's impossible for there to be good sides and women that enjoy it? Or so projected on by society that you can't comprehend a woman being so flippant or blase with her body and enjoy a frequent amount of cock?

Sure it can be tedious like any job but fucking hell, women can and do enjoy all aspects of it. The money. The control. Everything about it.

Some of you need to give your head a wobble and visit a swingers/sex club and see how the women act that are fucking your husbands. They just love having sex. It can be that simple.

OP maybe go across the road and speak to her, voice your concerns and you might find her a reasonable woman and someone likeable. Not all whores are common, drug ladled degenerates most are just normal woman having a life and enjoying it.

If you also speak to her it might make her either move her business or curtail it but if she does not stop the only way the police will deal with it is if it is affecting your life directly, i.e being approached by her clients etc.

But speak to her first if you that concerned about it.

@IgamOgamJones how about allowing a woman to have the choice to do what she bloody wants with her time or body. Stop dictating how people should live their lives, no doubt yours is not so perfect and I am pretty sure you have a lot more to be ashamed of than she does for example how you view women who choose to work as escorts for a living.

Very condescending, shame on you!

Women can do do whatever they want to do with their body.
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As long as all of us approve.... 🙄

Obviously she is not causing a nuisance otherwise OP would have realised long time ago.

Just go speak to her about the parking lot and being bit more discreet when they are leaving. She will probably be quite horrified someone on the street knows.
It's a job for her. Oldest trade in the world.

If it was a website designer working from home, having people in and out all day and they parked in your spot, there would be no question of how to deal with it, would there.

And fgs🙄 can someone do something about vashna? Don't believe she is an adult tbh.

@SpiritedLondon and @Nicknacky I applaud you both.

Beaverhausen My experience in the 'industry' formed my opinions, I have yet, in all my years seen anything to make them change. Women enjoy sex with men they choose to have sex with, not those men we have to fuck in order to pay the rent.

“Some of you need to give your head a wobble and visit a swingers/sex club and see how the women act that are fucking your husbands. They just love having sex. It can be that simple”

This kind of pathetic snipe will inevitably surface itself on these threads.

It’s as if some people revel in extolling the virtues of prostitution and that all our husbands are at it and there’s nothing we can do about it.

I wonder who these posters could be? .

I can't even see the problem with the parking space. OP hasn't said her visitors have ever been prevented from using it. It's a bit petty to object to the use of a parking space that's standing empty all day long.

It's our space and is used regularly by myself and my husband

I don’t know a single man who would admit irl that he has paid for sex. I’m sure sex workers see men from all walks of life, but it’s funny that on the one hand we should “give our heads a wobble” and everyone does it, yet none of them seem to have the guts to admit it irl.

Tbh, as an industry, it doesn’t necessarily bother me. The bad sides absolutely do. But I accept some women might enjoy it.

It’s just can’t imagine anyone proudly bragging about their daughter’s new job in the sex industry 🤷‍♀️. That includes the men who use them. Which maybe implies a lack of empathy or respect. Or maybe just dehumanising / othering sex workers. Not the same as other women in my life iyswim.

That’s what sometimes sits uneasily with me.

And my Dh is free to fuck whomever he wants. It just means he won’t be fucking me ever again if he does. So meh to the “fucking your husbands” goadiness really.

*It’s just that I can’t imagine...

OP, have the clients ever prevented you from using your space when you want to? If not, I can't see the problem.