More of a WWYD - Naked wanking neighbour

[LittleMissPetty]

Hi everyone sorry I'm posting here for traffic.

A month ago a couple moved into the house two doors down from me ("MNN" - male new neighbour). Other than an acknowledging nod in passing I have never spoken to them.

One night a couple of weeks ago I came home at about 10.30 at night and MNN was stood in his lounge window with the lights on, curtains wide open and butt naked. I saw everything. I thought it may have been an accident i.e it's late at night and he's just walking around naked (although the way I drive in to my parking space my lights would have shone right in his window ).

Then another night I came home at about 10.30 again and there was someone having extremely loud sex - it was a hot night so everyone had their windows open. As I got home my 13yo DD was closing her window to block out the sex noises. (In fairness I cannot say whether it was definitely the new neighbours but I did do the obligatory mumsnet clap when they finished ).

Then last week my NDN (between me and new neighbours) told me that his cleaner had been in his kitchen in the middle of the day and MNN had been in his own garden at the top naked and wanking. MNN saw the cleaner and rather than looking sheepish and running inside he kept going only harder .

I have just got back from picking DD up from a party and, driving into our parking area where we have to look straight at new neighbours' house, MNN was in his bedroom, window open, curtains open wanking away. DD noticed it and even commented saying "is that really necessary".

I do wish I had shouted at the time "close your curtains" but it didn't occur to me at the time.

If it weren't for my NDN's story about his cleaner I would assume it was just carelessness but tonight it was almost as if he had deliberately positioned himself so anyone driving up or walking past would see. I don't think I feel comfortable knocking and asking them to ensure curtains are closed as it's just me and DD so don't want to draw specific attention to us - particularly as he can see into our garden and it just feels creepy tbh. Their house is rented so at least they may not be there permanently.

WWYD?

Yes police. The 101 line is helpful ime. It’s not a 999 case (unless very specifically targeted at your 13 year old Dd while you are out) but definitely needs a call to 101. If you know the landlord or agent i’d Report it to them as well.

I’d film him and show it to the police.

Someone I used to work with did this and was charged with gross indecency or some such offence and went to court.

Well done for reporting him, he could well be a repeat offender.

He may just got of on wanking with the knowing of public are seeing him kind of like a rush... it's messed up but some people just are that kind of crazy 😂

Tumerictits2018 - such an hilarious comment you are so funny AND a LOL emoticon - what have we done to deserve all this? Are you on holiday from Nethuns?

Clearly it DID affect you adversely because you seem to think its ok.

You’ve done the right thing

But keep a record of anything else that happens, anything that sets your spidey senses off even if it’s not exposure

@TumericTits2018 It's great that you found it funny. I got flashed when I was 9, and I certainly didn't.

OP, I'm echoing so many other posters here by saying please call the police. He's doing this intentionally.

I'd post on MN about it. Definitely not call the police or get the pervert put away and put on the sex offenders list where he belongs. Just let him keep wanking in front of your daughter.

Police and also the landlord.

I would be so pissed off if someone had exposed themselves like this in front of my child. There is just no need for it. I would chase it up with the police in a few days and make sure you report it if he does anything of a similar nature again. Can you get the neighbour and her cleaner to report also? The guy is a weirdo and something should be done about his disgusting behaviour

I wonder what they mean by calling out and having a word?

What they should be doing is calling out with you and your Dd first, and recording written statements from you, along with the neighbour's cleaner.

Then they should be calling to invite him in for interview prior to reporting him for prosecution. Please don't let the police let him away with 'having a word'

For all you or we know, he may already be on the sex offenders register, so you definitely did the right thing by contacting the police rather than speaking to him yourself.

Definitely done the right thing in reporting him OP

I can't believe anyone would have to ask what to do about a man deliberately letting your 13 year old daughter see him masturbating.

Well done for reporting to the police, and if he ever does it again, call the police again. And again every time.

We had the same problem. I found out who the landlord was and got him evicted, as well as police.

Sick fuck. I can only hope his goolies get caught in the bin, or split in a hammer accident.

Better yet, nail the cunt's balls to the floor!

I'm always triggered by my own experiences.

Police, landlord, squirt gun with paint.
Not necessarily in that order.

It's a no brainier.. why haven't you called the police yet? It's sexual harassment and he's exposing himself to children!
Sick bastard.

Sorry I see you have called police. Well done! I hope they sort him out.

Police
Landlord
He’s a pervert

Call the police and ask your neigbour's cleaner to make a complaint as well

Why don't people at least read the OPs posts even if they can't be arsed to RTFL.

Well my first response would be to report it to the police and THEN come here to tell you about it, not ask what to do

@Ellapaella she has called the police. RTFT!

Well done for reporting him. Definitely doesn't sound like a one off accident and he is doing it on purpose for kicks. What a perv! Let us know how it goes after the police visit him, if they let you know!