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Friend spends the weekend with me then ‘reviews’ her experience, wtf!?

999 replies

Biscusting · 09/06/2018 21:25

Friend has been good friend during our uni days. We’ve loosely kept in touch over the years, but different career choices, interests, distance and children have pushed us in different directions.

She messages me out out of the blue to ask about staying a weekend with us. We live in an area popular with tourists.

I’m feeling a bit put out, as don’t fancy hosting, but we had no concrete plans and thought it would be a nice catch up.

Anyway she stays we have dinner out one night. She’s spends a day visiting a popular attraction and we have a nice evening in with a selection of nibbles, pizza, cheese and wine etc. Uneventful, pleasant weekend I feel.

Now i’ve just been browsing FB and looked on her page to see if she’d posted any pictures. To find she’d written quite a lengthy post about her stay. I don’t want to copy and paste, but basically it’s along the lines of, ‘had an okay weekend with Biscusting, staying at her place. Found the breakfast underwhelming and conversation with her DH a bit dry.
The sleigh bed in the guest room was too high and I bumped on the wooden edge so often I have a bruise. The room was too small.’.....the WiFi speed was poor at best’

She goes on to critique the decor and waffles on a lot about the tourist attraction she visited. Then ends the post with ‘all in all i’d give her two stars’

Wtaf is this!? Has she mistaken FB for trip advisor and my home for a hotel!?

We don’t have many shared friends, but people have liked her bloody post. 13 people!

Now the thing is she talked about coming back at the end of July for an exhibition and we made relatively firm plans about her return.

AIBU to tell her to jog on?

OP posts:
Biscusting · 10/06/2018 12:31

I have been unfriended. Shock

OP posts:
Dobby1sAFreeElf · 10/06/2018 12:31

Well at least you now know she was being a complete CF and can look forward to not having her in July.

StruggsToFunc · 10/06/2018 12:32

Ha! No loss, OP.

smashyourglasses · 10/06/2018 12:32

Send her the link to this thread before she blocks you!

Suresurelah · 10/06/2018 12:34

You are well rid OP.

I would now block her number etc.......as I have a feeling that she will be sniffing around you again nearer to July. Just saying.

Dandeliontea123 · 10/06/2018 12:34

Not even an acknowledgment or apology? What an absolute CF.

Monny1 · 10/06/2018 12:35

She knows that , she is in the wrong. Who does she think, she is?

maxthemartian · 10/06/2018 12:35

She puts that up an then unfriends you?!
Nasty weirdo.

Kittykat93 · 10/06/2018 12:36

Think you're well shot of her. She's not even cheeky, just a rude fucking dickhead.

KeepServingTheDrinks · 10/06/2018 12:37

That's so so horrible. I'm so sorry.

She's a grade A cowbag. Flowers

PatchworkElmer · 10/06/2018 12:38

This is nuts. She’s no great loss!

Aeroflotgirl · 10/06/2018 12:40

Oh my goodness what a nasty piece of work. I don't see her friends clamouring to offer her a place to stay, after that nasty and immature review of staying with a friend. Instead of doing the decent thing, and contacting you to apologise, she has taken the cowards way out. Good riddance to bad rubbish I say.

QuackPorridgeBacon · 10/06/2018 12:40

I’ve only read the op. What the fuck lol I mean I have to laugh because it’s so ridiculous. Who the fuck does that? Is she ok in the head?

fuzzyfozzy · 10/06/2018 12:40

Cheeky bitch

Aeroflotgirl · 10/06/2018 12:41

She is a nasty cow leaving a review like that of staying with a friend. Who does that!

Shadow666 · 10/06/2018 12:42

She's crazy!

Ask mutual friend about any rants she posts, just for our entertainment. Because, you know a passive aggressive rant about how you know who your friends are is coming.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 10/06/2018 12:43

I think it is pretty clear it wasn’t a joke, given her reaction!

You don’t need a friend like that, OP!

BurnerName · 10/06/2018 12:43

I would keep a distance from mutual friends who liked/approved the review too OP.

Well rid of her

GinandGingerBeer · 10/06/2018 12:43

Whaaaaaat?
She's got the monk on with you now? I think she needs introducing to softzilla they'd get on a treat.

RoseWhiteTips · 10/06/2018 12:45

A perfect and dignified response, OP.

HeedMove · 10/06/2018 12:45

What a complete tosser of a woman.

RoseWhiteTips · 10/06/2018 12:46

Ooooh yes, send her a Link to this thread.

RoseWhiteTips · 10/06/2018 12:47

I have to ask also whether she is right in the head. Sounds batshit crazy to me.🤣

LighthouseSouth · 10/06/2018 12:47

wait, what?

do you have any mutual friends who might have an idea of what's going on? It's so strange.

I mean, people are strange, but even in my extreme pessimism I'm kinda thrown by this!

RoseWhiteTips · 10/06/2018 12:48

Or send the Link one of the idiots who Liked it - if you cannot access her any longer. Well shot of someone like that, btw.