Friend called me lazy - aibu?

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So im going to an event held by my DP's family.

I like to look good but there are some things i just cannot be fucked with and ironing is one of them.

DP is much more image conscious than me.

He asked me what i was wearing to the event and i showed him my dress and said "you have a choice: either you can be the guy who turns up with a girl in a creased dress or you can iron it for me".

So he's ironing it.

Friend was here for this and said it was one of the laziest things she had heard it a long time and kept going on about my "poor" DP.

AIBU?

The point was i dont give a shit if the dress is creased.

flying
Plodding around the house, who cares.
Going to an event with family, turning up in creased clothes is lazy and unpresentable.

Well it seems this thread was a bit of a waste of time op since you were 100% reasonable.
You’re ‘super fun’ relationship where you speak to each other like shit and your oh pretends he’s going to beat you really isn’t anything to boast about though 😂