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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to find flip-flops at work vulgar?

235 replies

SummaLuvin · 14/05/2018 14:02

With the recent bout of hot weather we have been enjoying, there has been a proliferation of my colleagues who have deemed it acceptable to wear revealing sandals and flip-flops to work. I work in a corporate environment and find this overt display of naked foot highly unprofessional, not to mention vulgar. Quite frankly seeing Tony's hairy toes makes me want to heave. AIBU to find this outrageous?

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CuntinuousMingeprovement · 14/05/2018 19:15

Yabu. And weird.

SabineUndine · 14/05/2018 19:17

‘Vulgar’. This sounds like snobbery to me.

Semster · 14/05/2018 19:18

I build websites and do digital marketing for a living. If someone is offended by my footwear they're welcome to go and spend four times as much getting some over-priced agency to do exactly the same thing for them. Strangely, so far everyone seems to have been quite happy to tolerate my footwear in return for a website and marketing that they can actually afford...

MaisyPops · 14/05/2018 19:21

Beach flip flops (plasticy and foam ones) have no place in the workplace.

Sandals are fine in my opinion.

Being wound up and offended by anything other than old school business formal corporate attire seems to be quite a british thing.

Many places are business casual these days and I think that's about right

SenecaFalls · 14/05/2018 19:22

I don’t mind seeing toes though. I live in a Southern US state where everyone (except school kids) where open toed shoes all the time.

Me, too. I wore "revealing sandals" to work today. But no flip-flops for me. I can't stand that post thingy between my toes.

I don't see many men wearing revealing sandals to the office. And women in the Southern US, generally speaking, have well-groomed feet.

JacquesHammer · 14/05/2018 19:26

I build websites and do digital marketing for a living. If someone is offended by my footwear they're welcome to go and spend four times as much getting some over-priced agency to do exactly the same thing for them. Strangely, so far everyone seems to have been quite happy to tolerate my footwear in return for a website and marketing that they can actually afford...

Exactly this Grin Except I have the tattooed feet also

SabineUndine · 14/05/2018 19:31

My there are some hoity-toity people on here. ‘In the workplace’ ‘ in a professional environment’. So anyone who works somewhere where they can wear what they like isn’t a professional, then? Get over yourselves.

JacquesHammer · 14/05/2018 19:38

There are two MN regulars who haven't posted on this thread yet...I can pretty much guarantee they're going to Grin

LoniceraJaponica · 14/05/2018 19:38

I’d probably say if it’s fine to wear denim where you work, then it’s also fine to wear flip flops

Not where I work. We are allowed to wear smart denim, but no canvas shoes, no trainers and definitely no flip flops.

I can't get worked up about this, and don't understand why some people hate feet so much, unless the feet in question are unkempt and uncared for.

RoadToRivendell · 14/05/2018 19:42

And women in the Southern US, generally speaking, have well-groomed feet

And, monogrammed stationery. Wink

ilovesooty · 14/05/2018 19:45

I think a name like SummaLuvin is pretty vulgar actually Grin

I had to wear flip flops at work today. It was that or not go to work at all. I dropped a chair on my foot yesterday and they were the only footwear I could get on. Sad

LoniceraJaponica · 14/05/2018 20:00

Our office has arctic air con so you wouldn't want to wear flip flops anyway.

Doesn't anyone else work in an office with air con?

SenecaFalls · 14/05/2018 20:06

Doesn't anyone else work in an office with air con?

I live in Florida, so yes. But we know how to adjust thermostats. Smile

Ollivander84 · 14/05/2018 20:07

No open toes where I work too I wear palmairas and get away with it

Semster · 14/05/2018 20:09

Doesn't anyone else work in an office with air con?

I did in my last job.

They turn the temperature up in the summer because people are wearing summer clothes.

They turn it down in winter when people are wearing winter clothes.

expatinscotland · 14/05/2018 20:10

'And women in the Southern US, generally speaking, have well-groomed feet.'

I haven't lived in Texas since 1993 but still use Flexitol on my feet with socks every other night, use a pumice stone on my feet, keep the nails in good condition and use polish if the toes are going to be on display. Manky feet are just . . . eww.

MsJudgemental · 14/05/2018 20:11

I am currently wearing a sleeveless dress and sandals. I look smart.

SenecaFalls · 14/05/2018 20:13

Our thermostats are out in the open where anybody can get to them. Makes for an interesting dynamic and interplay among the generations.

LoniceraJaponica · 14/05/2018 20:14

As do I, but it is centrally controlled so any adjustment I make makes very little difference.

SenecaFalls · 14/05/2018 20:15

expat to borrow a quotation from Steel Magnolias, "you were raised right." Wink

MrsGrindah · 14/05/2018 20:20

I don’t mind flip flops that are appropriate to the rest of the outfit I.e. summer casual, but I hate an incongruous flip flop. Also I do think they make people walk funny. Nobody has every strode along purposefully in a flip flop.
Personally I can’t wear the bloody things...that little post is agony. On holiday in Oz I spent a fortune on a pair of Fit Flops when they first came out. By the time I’d walked a couple of blocks my toes were cut to ribbons.

Copperbonnet · 14/05/2018 20:21

Expat and Seneca Grin. I certainly had to raise my game on moving to Texas - beautiful pedicures everywhere!

Hoopaloop · 14/05/2018 20:24

I thought we were above telling people what to wear? Surely it's their own choice?

PunkrockerGirl59 · 14/05/2018 20:27

Doesn't anyone else work in an office with air con?
In our dreams. Even my patients complain about the overheated environment and I pass it on to management every single time a patient complains at least once a day. But back to the OP. YADNBU, totally unprofessional even if you possess the most beautifully manicured feet in the world.

burnoutbabe · 14/05/2018 20:30

i just can't stand that squelch of bare feet sticking to flip flops and then separating.

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