So DD has just left on a 2 month working holiday abroad, except she had no money to take with her and won't be getting any earnings for at least 3 weeks!
We have had to bung her £200 so she can eat till then, which we can't afford as have 3 younger DC, 1 with SN and I can't work because of him.
She had £2700 go into her bank account in April (uni loan and wages) and apart from about £1000 she had to use to pay for her flight, accommodation and incidentals, and she should have saved the rest but continued going out every night! She spent over a £100 this weekend alone despite knowing she was flying today!
She lives at home, and pays no rent and only has her mobile and contact lenses to pay for.
Does nothing round the house, pisses off for days a time so we never know when she'll be in.
She hasn't even finished her Uni assignments! She quit her job 3 weeks ago as she was supposed to be spending that time finishing them before she went.
She sprang the 'I've been stupid and got no money left last night'!
The choice was her not going and having to put up with her attitude and laying in bed all day or give her some money so she could go. Least stress 
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Am now awaiting begging phone calls saying she has no money to eat.
Oh and she only has a one way ticket.
Aibu to have wanted to lamp her one? Also worried for her that she may not be able to eat 
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I certainly not the poster who previously posted about her doing similar and asking if I was UR to go through her bank statements. Definitely not me!