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pt.2 To find floral tributes being left for Harry Vincent offensive

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lostjanni · 11/04/2018 20:35

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Mydoghatesthebath · 15/04/2018 12:22

Thry certainly are a bad smell sgree with you. I do hope those poor pensioners get all the support and help they need

Springiscoming123 · 15/04/2018 14:55

looks like only 2 people turned up to the protest today and his birthday according to the DM

TSSDNCOP · 15/04/2018 15:36

Day’s not over yet. Warm day in the South East, odd you’d need your parka hood up. Why wouldn’t you want anyone to see how proud you were of your dead career criminal friend.

Springiscoming123 · 15/04/2018 15:44

its always the women laying the flowers,talking to the press etc

i know the blokes dont like their faces shown etc,wonder why!!

stitchglitched · 15/04/2018 17:19

I was thinking the same Spring, the men seem reluctant to go to the same street where police officers are for some strange reason!

Springiscoming123 · 15/04/2018 17:51

i know,what a life then women and young girls have,its seems so oppressive

HelenaDove · 15/04/2018 17:54

Thats why they marry them off as early as possible Before they get old enough to start questioning it.

Springiscoming123 · 15/04/2018 18:07

Yes seems so,seems a bit of a poor show i thought many would of attended

TSSDNCOP · 15/04/2018 18:22

There's a lot of activewear being worn.

Going up the shrine in my activewear.

Grin
Aeroflotgirl · 15/04/2018 18:33

Helena, just goes to show how low, and nasty the family is. The poor man will never come home, it will never be the same for him again Sad.

HelenaDove · 15/04/2018 18:36

Will they be gathering there every year on the anniversary of his death and his birthday?

HelenaDove · 15/04/2018 18:45

Well SGB was absolutely bang on about far right wingers jumping on the bandwagon.

Mydoghatesthebath · 15/04/2018 18:53

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Trumpdump · 15/04/2018 19:20

I really am losing any sympathy I had for that family!!! They are shameful. Angry

Aeroflotgirl · 15/04/2018 19:23

I never had any sympathy for them anyway, especially when information started emerging about them, and how shameless, nasty and vile they were towards Mr Osborne-Brooks, and how they wanted to do away with him.

Jannilost · 15/04/2018 19:26

The guy who ripped won the flowers, said if the car entered the street he would smash the windows to the hearse, and rip the flowers from that! Many people have been saying they're going to blockade the road, and throw bags of shit at the hearse too!

GnotherGnu · 15/04/2018 19:31

Way to go, mydog. Ignore every question directed to you, especially where they expose the weakness in your arugments; respond after two days with, well, nothing.

There, there pet. Go back to sleep.

jacks11 · 15/04/2018 19:33

Whilst I am certainly not celebrating Mr Vincent's death, I cannot feel bring myself to feel at all sorry for him when you take into account the reason he met his death. He is dead because he physically threatened an elderly man in his own home, whilst his vulnerable and unwell wife lay upstairs- to the extent that the elderly man felt his life was in danger and acted in self-defence. Did Henry Vincent deserve to die? Perhaps not, but I cannot bring myself to regret his death or feel it is a "tragedy". I am ambivalent. I do, however, feel incredibly sorry for Mr Osborne-Brookes whose life has been turned upside down and now has to live with what has happened, unlikely to ever be able to return their home. On top of that they are being threatened and intimidated by Mr Vincent's family. The only tragedy here is what has happened to the elderly couple.

Mr Vincent was clearly an utterly despicable individual who had preyed on the elderly and vulnerable for most of his adult life, apparently without an ounce of regret or concern for the damage he inflicted. His family are of the same ilk, given they have been happy to live off his ill-gotten gains (or supported by his father and other family members who are criminals too). Their behaviour has also been utterly despicable. They are trying to do anything to intimidate, upset and inflame Mr Osborne-Brooks and also the local community. I hope they are prevented from taking the funeral procession past the Osbourne-Brooks' House. It is unbelievable that they would think that is appropriate.

And whilst I agree that HV was the product of his upbringing, it really doesn't excuse his actions. He was an adult with free will and so he made his won decisions. I can see those saying you need to intervene early to prevent this kind of criminality being passed down through the generations. But I think that is difficult in any situation- short of taking the children into care (and I am not suggesting that)- given the parents often don't see anything wrong in their lifestyle/choices. It is even more difficult to intervene effectively in some communities, such as the travelling community. Besides the actual difficulty in intervening in families who move regularly (though I know not all do), they don't want it. They have chosen to opt out of mainstream life. How can you intervene in a closed community that wouldn't welcome any help from mainstream society, or indeed see it as help?

Uniglo18 · 15/04/2018 19:48

I wonder which funeral parlour will organise this funeral. It's going to be very controversial.

Trumpdump · 15/04/2018 20:00

To paraphrase someone on Twitter:

There's a fifty quid note on the floor for whichever political party condemns this family's behavior...

Even the Guardian is giving them a rough ride (which is good!)

derxa · 15/04/2018 20:06

There's a fifty quid note on the floor for whichever political party condemns this family's behavior...
To be fair to Barry Gardiner (Lab) he did condemn them on this week's QT.

SaucyJane · 15/04/2018 20:10

I just cannot comprehend the thought process that makes his family so defiant in the face of what must be very obvious public opinion.

Your family is hated because of the criminal bastards. Because they steal, sometimes violently, from vulnerable people. Because they contribute fuck-all to society.

And yet - they seem to actively want to taunt the public. It's way beyond arrogance.

troodiedoo · 15/04/2018 20:33

@Uniglo18 they probably have their own traveller funeral director. Must be very lucrative with their awful mortality rate.

Springiscoming123 · 15/04/2018 20:40

i hope they ask for money up front

i knew a stone mason who was asked to provide/engrave a travellers mothers gravestone (the two men had known each other for years)

stone mason done the job and the traveller refused to pay and never did