Not paying for wedding guests

[pleasingeveryone]

Hi all,

Me and DP have a 7 month old baby and got engaged last year.

We are planning our wedding and when we've looked into it all we actually just want something small and intimate.

We are in the process of moving home and having a small baby, we are short on cash. Me and DP are planning on marrying next summer in Spain (legal part here, blessing with us two and DC out there).

Are we cheeky in saying to our close family and very few closest friends that there is no "formal" invite. They are all welcome to attend but would need to pay themselves.

Is this extremely cheeky? Or are we best just saying, me and DP are going to get married and leave it at that?

I only plan to do it once we both work hard, have no kids, own our house and have come out of it with no debt. Each to their own, I didn't really want the first one but MIL had other ideas!

Three weddings?! Fucking hell!

Don’t do that, OP! 😂

Aww fash I think that sounds nice. I love afternoon tea and a Mexican street food stall.
It was more like you did a day do and an evening do on seperate days.

FASH84 that sounds amazing :)