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Lying about being stabbed?

179 replies

DextroDependant · 06/04/2018 23:24

I had a holiday booked with my partner to leave next week but we broke up.

I think he thought I would calm down and change my mind but things came to a head this afternoon when I confirmed I wouldn't be going away with him.

He was being a nuisance outside my house so I had to call the police, he left when he realised I was calling them.

A few hours later he text me that he had been chased by a lad with a knife but was going back to that area to get to his mum's.

45mins after that his mum text me that he had been stabbed and beaten with a bar.

His sister was texting me updates.

Less than 2 hours later he had apparently been to the hospital, been seen and been discharged. Told to come back tomorrow for head x rays and told that the stab wound may have damaged his liver.

This info is coming via his mum and sister.

AIBU to think that it is a load of bollocks and no way would he have been seen and dealt with that fast. Surely he would have been kept in for observation at least?

AIBU unreasonable to limit my response to - well at least he can get a crime reference and claim for the holiday on the insurance as he won't be able to travel after being stabbed.

OP posts:
ILookedintheWater · 09/04/2018 11:05

Please listen to wellthisisshit.
From what you have said so far it is very likely that, if he has given you his housekeys, that he already has copies.
If your keys are not in the inside of the lock he can let himself in at any point. You should absolutely expect him to enter in your absence and possibly be there on your return.
Change your locks and put chains on. If you don't have time to do it today then buy the locks and ask your house sitters to deal with it asap in your absence. Fit a catflap.
Keep a diary of everything and keep 101 informed.

His behaviour is very very concerning. You are so used to him being awful to you that you really cannot see that this is so horrifying to those of us reading.

GabsAlot · 09/04/2018 21:18

i hope u have a good holiday and dump his passport on the way

Tistheseason17 · 09/04/2018 22:02

Change locks.

GeekyWombat · 10/04/2018 06:18

Today’s the day! Have a great, hopefully drama free, holiday!

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