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To think this mother is horrible for not inviting my daughter

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WomanInTheMirrorStaresAtMe · 20/02/2018 12:20

Birthday party one...
Girl next door having a birthday party, she is in the same class, year 1, as my daughter. There are 11 girls in the class.

Around Xmas the girl next door started being a bit mean to DD. It came to a head when she pushed DD over at school and she hit her head on the playground. We were called because they suspected concussion and the teacher said she had also informed girls parents. Teacher said DD did nothing wrong, didn't even retaliate and that as far as they were aware after speaking to girls and their peers it has all been one way nastiness. Girls made up, as they do, and are fine now but her mother has ignored me since, deleted me from Facebook and glares at me on school run and when we pass outside. Silly but whatever...

So back to the birthday party. Every single girl in the class is invited except DD. Invites were given out on morning school run. The girls were all together waiting to go in. Next door girl handed them to everyone but DD, telling her that she wasn't invited cos her mum says she not allowed. DD looked upset but I took her aside and said we would have a day out, she wasn't impressed... NDN mother just stared at us.

I have found out when the party is and will take DD out so she hasn't got to see all her friends arriving and hear the party, but seriously, this mum is an absolute bitch isn't she? And I have to live next door to her!!! DD seems a bit confused more than anything but is upset as thinks our neighbours must not like her.

I know moaning about kids not being invited to parties is normally seen as unreasonable but I am not in this instance am I??

OP posts:
Aeroflotgirl · 24/02/2018 13:02

I am glad school appears to be taking this seriously, and your dd had a lovely day at school.

TheCatsMother44 · 24/02/2018 14:50

Olive branch, that's hilarious! She wouldn't know an olive branch if it smacked her in the face (more so than a door!!!).

Sleephead1 · 25/02/2018 09:42

I think you did the right thing ok she's not sorry she just realised everyone has seen what she is like and wants to get out of it and thinks if she makes up with you everyone will forget it. You and your daughter sound lovely hope you have a amazing trip and hope the school comes down really hard on the awful behaviour.

billybagpuss · 26/02/2018 14:24

Hope today goes OK x

Helpimfalling · 26/02/2018 16:57

Hope DD is okay x

NachoAddict · 27/02/2018 11:29

So glad the school are being supportive. What a piece of work.

macbethh · 01/03/2018 17:14

Any update? x

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