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406 replies

lovelystar · 18/02/2018 03:15

Someone please give me some advice or something, anything to take my mind of how fuming I am.

I am being induced tomorrow at 11am, boyfriend went for a pint with a friend, fine, said he'd be back by 12, fine, gives me a chance to bath/clean/chill.

It's now 3am he has just stumbled in absolutely steaming, rang the doorbell constantly, waking me up even though he had his keys on him. He's been sick in the bedroom/bathroom knocking everything over. To top it all off I'm now on the sofa as he's diagonal across the bed snoring his head off and he's far to heavy for me to move him.

You know any other night I may have found it slightly amusing and left him to it. I just wanted tonight of all nights to not be woken up and kept awake and having to get up early to clean up all his sick before I come home with the baby. He will be a nightmare to get up in the morning and I don't think I can face the dramatics and moodiness of him when I have to get up and go and have a baby.

Would I be a complete bitch if I left him to it and went and had the baby myself and made him regret it for a long time. Or is that a step too far? It's my first baby and a high risk pregnancy. Sorry for the rant it's early/late and I'm angry.

OP posts:
CarpeVitam · 22/02/2018 06:10

Well done you! And warmest congratulations OP! Thanks xx

Teachtolive · 22/02/2018 06:33

Congratulations lovelystar. Welcome to your little boy. Flowers

jaseyraex · 22/02/2018 06:36

Congratulations OP! That's lovely to hear. Hope things go well from here on out Flowers

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 22/02/2018 06:38

Congratulations on your little boy, Lovelystar! Now rest in hospital for as long as they'll let you (I got 3 days each time) and plan what to do next. Thanks

userabcname · 22/02/2018 06:48

Congratulations on your little boy!

Awrite · 22/02/2018 07:10

Lovely news. Stay strong, you and the wee fella deserve better than his father.

Qvar · 22/02/2018 07:11

Oh Lovelystar, well done and congratulations x

JenniferYellowHat1980 · 22/02/2018 07:13

Lovely! Congratulations Thanks

BrutusMcDogface · 22/02/2018 07:16

Congratulations! SmileFlowers

RandomMess · 22/02/2018 07:25

Congratulations!!!!

Doilooklikeatourist · 22/02/2018 07:26

Congratulations 💐

snewsname · 22/02/2018 07:29

Fab news. Enjoy your baby but bide your time and make sure time doesn't make you forget how awful he was. Get those plans into place and make sure thou ltb.

eloisesparkle · 22/02/2018 07:30

Congratulations Thanks

Dutchoma · 22/02/2018 07:44

Congratulations.

Can you ask your mother to check on the state of the house before you decide whether to go back there?

Unicornwhisperer · 22/02/2018 07:47

Congratulations! Enjoy your baby boy and rest while you decide what you do next. 💐

MadMags · 22/02/2018 07:57

Awwww HUGE congratulations! Enjoy the snuggles Flowers

CollyWombles · 22/02/2018 08:33

Congratulations OP! You are amazing and should be so proud of yourself!

Your wee boy is now the most important thing in the world (as you know!) and someone once said to me, be with a man you would be happy for your son to grow up to be like.

Unfortunately that was AFTER I had children with a man I hope they never grow up to be like Hmm but it is some of the best advice I have ever been given and I will leave it here for you.

Congratulations again and I hope you get plenty of rest, you deserve it Thanks

speakfriendandenter · 22/02/2018 08:35

Congratulations, lovely news Smile

GeekyWombat · 22/02/2018 08:46

Awwwww hooray for Baby star! Big congratulations :)

Chickoletta · 22/02/2018 09:14

Wonderful news. Congratulations.

Ask your mum to go around to your house to make sure that it's clean and tidy. You want to go home to a nice, calm environment not a shithole!

Qvar · 22/02/2018 09:22

Go home with your mum. Ask her to take you home with her. You have everything you need there, and she won't get pissed and vomit all over the baby's lovely things x

Groovee · 22/02/2018 09:38

Congratulations x

Megs4x3 · 22/02/2018 09:45

Congratulations!! :-) I second (third?) the advice to ask your Mum to look at your place before you go home, but they chuck you out so quickly these days it may not be possible. Wishing you everything good for you and your little one.

missmorleyme · 22/02/2018 09:51

Congratulations, dont let him being a shit get in the way of bonding with your little one, time to focus on yourself and your beautiful baby, wish you all the best for the future. Xx

ChasedByBees · 22/02/2018 10:44

Congratulations!