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If you don’t see the issue with TW being classed as women please read this.

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bambambini · 13/02/2018 00:09

Especially if you have daughters who play sports. Do we really want to have “woman” “girl” “female” totally redifined so that sny msle can say they are a woman? If yes- are you really ok with your daughters facing this now and in the future?

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PositivelyPERF · 13/02/2018 01:30

So why doesn’t she play matches against them MrsMcGarry?

bambambini · 13/02/2018 01:30

What? So you want women competing against Bolt and Federerer?

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PositivelyPERF · 13/02/2018 01:31

No, but most of the violent monsters have a penis.

PleaseDontGoadTheToad · 13/02/2018 01:33

My dd is larger than a number of the boys in her year. Biological sex is not the only determinant of size

Size is not always an indicator of strength either.

Possession of a penis does not make a person a violent monster

Nobody said it did.

PancakeInMaBelly · 13/02/2018 01:33

Yes. I am happy with my future cis daughters living, playing and working alongside trans girls and women.

You plan to have daughters who are deemed to match the gender steriotypes associated with their sex?

Really?

My daughters are NOT Cis. Their girlhood has fuckall to do with percieved laydee-gender-ness thanks very much

bambambini · 13/02/2018 01:34

Mrsmcgarry

Even if your daughter was the best female rugby player in the Uk - would she be good enough for the male team?

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MrsMcGarry · 13/02/2018 01:35

And you really aren't going to win this battle by calling women who disagree with you handmaidens or stupid

PleaseDontGoadTheToad · 13/02/2018 01:36

I am happy with my future cis daughters living, playing and working alongside trans girls and women.

This thread is not about living together and working together. It's about sport.

I realise that reading and critical thinking are not your strong points but do try and keep up.

PositivelyPERF · 13/02/2018 01:38

You haven’t answered my other question MrsMcGarry. Why doesn’t your daughter play on the boy’s team or against boys?

bambambini · 13/02/2018 01:38

Well if it fits...

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OkPedro · 13/02/2018 01:39

What the F is cisgender 😭
Honestly, save me jebus from this shite

I was trying to explain to my 9 year old daughter that girl does not = pink
It's frustrating and then we have tools saying what defines a woman is pink, dresses and make up

PleaseDontGoadTheToad · 13/02/2018 01:42

@MrsMcGarry

That world rugby player welfare document I linked to above strongly recommends that people over 12 compete with their own sex unless in exceptional circumstances. They also say that nobody 15 or over should compete in mixed sex teams. Why do you think they say this?

MrsMcGarry · 13/02/2018 01:42

Oh to think that this used to be a place of intelligent debate...

she doesn't play on the boys team because our world is split by biological sex. That separatism has historically damaged women far more than men, and i refuse to be complicit in continuing it.

PleaseDontGoadTheToad · 13/02/2018 01:43

That separatism has historically damaged women far more than men, and i refuse to be complicit in continuing it.

You think that men and women being segregated for sport is damaging? Really now?

PositivelyPERF · 13/02/2018 01:44

Hang on to the seat of your pants OkPedro. If you’re new to Mumsnet and want to use critical thinking, then hang around or better still, get thee to the Feminist threads and discover that once you reach peak trans, there’s no going back to lala land.

SquareDot · 13/02/2018 01:44

@mcgarry, you do realise that post puberty - plus at least 15/16 years of age - the vast majority of boys are much more physically larger and stronger than girls. Both in muscle and bone?

I'm tall and athletic, and not even I measure up to my male counterparts. Naive is the word.

PancakeInMaBelly · 13/02/2018 01:44

Girls only sports have NOT historically been detrimental to women its the exact total oposite of that.

You have it so backwards that youre also inside out and sideways.

PositivelyPERF · 13/02/2018 01:45

Oh ffs I give up on MrMcGarry.

MrsMcGarry · 13/02/2018 01:52

I'm fully aware I won't change the minds of people who seem determined to perpetuate the battle of the sexes. but i will not allow a place that I've known for 15 years to become the sole territory of people who won't see past genitals and seem to want freedom for women to be whatever they want, but won't allow the same self determination to people born as men.

insult me all you want. mispronoun me all you want. you will not turn Mumsnet into Terf central.

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PositivelyPERF · 13/02/2018 01:55

I think you’ll find there’s a lot of Telling Everyone Real Facts on Mumsnet McGarry, so that genie is never going back in the bottle.

PancakeInMaBelly · 13/02/2018 01:55

Nope.
Girls cannot be whatever they want if what fundamentally defines a girl is wearing dresses and lightening your voice and doing hair!

OkPedro · 13/02/2018 01:57

Thanks posperf Wink
I've been lurking in feminism for quite awhile now
I've reached peak trans, I'd need to be dragged back kicking and screaming now!

PancakeInMaBelly · 13/02/2018 01:57

Oh and having laydee feels. We must not forget the layde feels.

PleaseDontGoadTheToad · 13/02/2018 01:58

So are we going to get an answer as to why world rugby are to strict about mixed sex teams?

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