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Someone off sick and accepted Facebook friend request?

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MagicSweets · 04/02/2018 16:31

Would this seem odd to you?

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Shimmershimmerandshine · 06/02/2018 21:43

I actually think you're talking nonsense draylon

Springtrolls · 06/02/2018 21:56

What a load of bollocks.
There are many, many illnesses that you can be at home and FB'ing and if the employer used their feed as a reason to discriminate this says more about the company than the person off sick.

But I suppose the person who is off for D&V and has to stay at home for 48 hours the last puke/shit shouldn't post.
The person with a broken limb and works in an industry preventing the person going in, cannot post.
The person who is going through chemo cannot post.

Don't talk nonsense.

My current boss. Have been mates for years. We knew each other before working with each other. He started as a midday meal supervisor, back in the days before FB. As he progressed, so did FB. He was a teacher back in its early days. He, of course, isn't a robot and over the years has had days off, and moved schools. Glowing references from previous schools. He's now a Headteacher.
So how does this fit into the bollocks you are spouting?

He, of course, isn't the only person who has risen through the ranks and gained promotion whilst having an online FB profile and posting when ill.

Draylon · 06/02/2018 22:37

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Ollivander84 · 06/02/2018 22:43

Draylon - I used social media after an op. Given I had cauda equina there was no way I could work as recovery meant not sitting for longer than 45 minutes (desk job) and I spent most of my time flat or standing
But yes I put makeup on, used social media and was well enough to chat on the phone. But signed off for 8 weeks

Ollivander84 · 06/02/2018 22:43

And I think if any eejit boss had questioned it, the neurosurgeon would have been very "wtf, of course she can't work but that doesn't mean her hands are broken"

Aragog · 07/02/2018 07:10

Luckily Drayton I have normal sensible and intelligent managers who know the difference between different types of illnesses.

juddyrockingcloggs · 07/02/2018 07:23

We had a lad off sick once and the next thing I was watching Glastonbury and there he was, fit as a fiddle performing on the New bands stage. Shit they were too!

If I'm laid up with whatever then I'm on Facebook cause I'm a nosy cow!

Iwillstartagainonmonday · 07/02/2018 08:40

See, FB isn't banned, it's just stupid to be seen on your feed if you're citing 'off, ill', too incapacitated to work.

I spent a week in HDU with sepsis once. Everyone on that bay was facebooking/mobiling, theres no tvs in there and theres fuck all else to do apart from rest and get better. None of our bosses thought we were 'stupid'.

WheresTheHooferDoofer · 07/02/2018 08:53

Draylon, if you are so sure that we should stay off FB when sick, please explain to me the difference between reading a book using my Kindle app or using FB while in bed sick.

Gudgyx · 07/02/2018 09:07

I’m off sick at the minute, have a stoma and have blocked my small bowel so in pain, nausea, sickness, fever etc

I’m still browsing fb. In fact, my boss tagged me in an article on fb on Monday, the article stated that day was the most common day of the year to phone in sick. He commented something along the lines of ‘I’ll be keeping an eye on u next year ;) ) I replied back with the middle finger emoji.

We were only colleagues before he got promoted, that’s why I have him on my friends list.

But yeah I’m still confined to bed for the day with Netflix on my iPad and fb or mn on my phone. Nothing wrong with that! Glad you’re not my manager OP

Shimmershimmerandshine · 07/02/2018 17:30

Draylon I said you were talking nonsense not that I didn't understand your point. Repeating it and adding in some strange guff about spider tattoos hasn't changed that.

SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 08/02/2018 13:07

I was WhatsApping friends towards the end of my stay in intensive care. My manager was texting me too.

MiserableAsSin · 08/02/2018 13:11

Being off sick is the perfect time to laze around on Facebook and Netflix

MycatsaPirate · 08/02/2018 13:19

When I was in hospital having spinal surgery I was posting just an hour after coming out of recovery. Admittedly it was garbled nonsense due to the morphine!

I then spent weeks stuck in bed at home unable to do anything other than walk to the bathroom for a wee because the wound kept reopening and basically just wouldn't heal. The only advice I got given was to stop moving about. So laying in bed with my phone or kindle was about the only entertainment I had and my only connection with 'outside' until dp and dd2 got home.

VioletCharlotte · 08/02/2018 13:24

This is my second day off work sick. I'm in bed as feel shaky and dizzy if I stand up, but I can still use Facebook and Mumsnet in my phone! Would you say someone shouldn't be off sick if they're well enough to read a book? Hmm

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