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Original poster

to think my mum has been extremely rude about dh yet again

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Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 10:53

dh is going to stay with dd (20) for a few days, he will sleep on her floor.
my dm could not keep the disgust out of her voice.
eew i think she may have said.
FGS Angry

talk me down from being so cross

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pictish · 03/02/2018 10:55

More context might be helpful. What does she think is ‘eew’?

You say ‘yet again’ - what do you mean?

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 10:56

that he is sharing his dd's room

oh well, she tries to bite her tongue but mainly doesnt succeed. causes a rift

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TellsEveryoneRealFacts · 03/02/2018 10:56

What are you cross about exactly?

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 10:56

that she should show such disgust

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TittyGolightly · 03/02/2018 10:57

Did you pull her up on it?

FuckyNellYaBastad · 03/02/2018 10:58

Is she a student? My dh has kipped on my dd floor when he’s been on a night out. What’s the problem?

babyccinoo · 03/02/2018 10:58

talk me down from being so cross

A please would be nice.

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 10:58

yes, i did pull her up,
i have stayed with dd several times, and slept on the floor, well twice
he is her father Angry

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MarmaladeIsMyJam · 03/02/2018 10:59

What exactly he she insinuating?

Crumbs1 · 03/02/2018 10:59

Nicer if your husband booked them both into a hotel for a luxury treat for student daughter.

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:00

ha ha ha crumbs Grin

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Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:00

a hostel perhaps?

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dementedpixie · 03/02/2018 11:01

Does she think he is some sort of pervert?!

pictish · 03/02/2018 11:02

I am struggling with filling in the gaps here. Why does your mum think your dh sleeping on his dd’s floor during a visit is disgusting?

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:02

i dont think perversion crossed her mind Shock but she was definitely disgusted

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Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:02

i dont know why she thinks that, she perhaps has very odd ideas

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OnionKnight · 03/02/2018 11:02

Nicer if your husband booked them both into a hotel for a luxury treat for student daughter.

Oh behave, do you really think the husband would be sleeping on the floor if he could afford to do that?

Whatshallidonowpeople · 03/02/2018 11:03

Maybe she was talking enough the sleeping on the floor? That would make me go "eewww"

pictish · 03/02/2018 11:04

“Nicer if your husband booked them both into a hotel for a luxury treat for student daughter.”

Can he afford a luxury treat for his daughter? Nice if it rained banknotes as well.

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:04

no, it was the staying in her room, i hotly pointed out that i stayed in her room, and slept on the floor, which silenced her.

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Whatshallidonowpeople · 03/02/2018 11:06

It is a bit odd. I wouldn't share a room with an adult child.

Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:06

actually i think i will suggest dd sleep on the floor

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Original poster
Slartybartfast · 03/02/2018 11:07

ah, it is odd?
your own child?
why not?

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Whatshallidonowpeople · 03/02/2018 11:08

Your comment makes no sense. Surely the fact that you said you also slept on the floor (hotly) and that silenced her shows it is the floor sleeping that she is ewwwing about.

Whatshallidonowpeople · 03/02/2018 11:08

I wouldn't like to share a room with any adult (Not a partner or bf)

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