to think my mum has been extremely rude about dh yet again

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dh is going to stay with dd (20) for a few days, he will sleep on her floor.
my dm could not keep the disgust out of her voice.
eew i think she may have said.
FGS

talk me down from being so cross

What a weird post. The op is drip feeding and not being clear?! Does your mum think your husband is a pervert is that what you're saying? If so that is very bizarre if there is no back story.

LalaLeona I don't get it either.

I kind of don't get it, but the crux is - she thinks it's ok to slag off your DH and - it's not.

So nip it. Don't just defend him. Text her this, now, so she can think on it:

'Really, really had enough of your attitude regarding DH. Can I just warn you - every time you get a little dig in, I like you less, and think more and more seriously about telling you to stay away permanently? There's no love without respect and I can tell you one thing - I certainly love and respect DH but can't say the same for you with your nasty, sneering attitude. Cut it out or you're going to end up one lonely person.'