Julie8008, thanks for responding to my post.
On the trade deal, I agree that the UK can build trade deals over time, but I fundamentally disagree that either France or Germany will put their financial interests in exporting to the UK above their interests in preserving the EU. That's the single biggest disconnect I see between what's being reported in the UK and the mood in e.g. Germany.
On bias language, by "fudge" I mean that essentially the UK won't leave the EU for all practical intents and purposes for another two years. Biased, yes, but probably towards your view?
Speaking of bias language, I HATE the new Americanism "wealthy liberal elite" - probably because I think it's been propagated by that lazy, workavoiding gobshite Ketamine Hopkins. What's wrong with coming up with a nasty homegrown label? Made in Britain and all... My preference would be for "rabid left wing schizofeminista", if you don't mind.
I agree with you that there is a corrupt ruling class who has totally forgotten about ordinary people / that there are a group of people in Britain who feel "left behind". That ruling class is currently in charge of the UK and has ensured that the UK permits some of the most aggressive consumer-rip off laws in the developed world outside the US (example: the amount of API you can charge on credit card debt is illegal in many countries in Western Europe). One of the current brakes on that type of pro-business anti-consumer rip off is EU law which might be all nannystatish and illogical from your perspective but which is also more pro-consumer than I believe the UK will be left on its own.
When Brexit happens, sorry, but I don't believe in the magical renaissance where the ruling elite (whether liberal or Mogg-esque) suddenly remembers the forgotten and left behind and fairly distributes the sudden wealth and jobs from trade deals amongst all. I don't think ordinary people will get to "take back control". Instead, it'll be exactly the same ruling elite but without the checks and controls the EU imposes on the UK.
Personally, I'm hoping for a hard Brexit so we can get this over and done with and so the Brexiteers can stop blaming the EU for their ills and start blaming those who deserve it, starting with the current UK government.