She's stolen my wedding...

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I feel really angry with my BF right now and can't decide if I'm being unreasonable or not...

I am getting married in June - we're having a 'wedding weekend' and have hired a lovely large house & guest cottages with an indoor swimming pool, games room etc from the Friday to Monday for our 25 guests.

We have organised a meal on the Friday night, a BBQ Party for the Saturday after the registry office and then a chilled out pool party on the Sunday.

My BF also has her wedding planned for September - a more formal church affair with sit down dinner etc.

Only now, BF has announced that the wedding plans have changed as she is 8 weeks pregnant....and that she has just booked the same house and is planning to invite close family and friends to join them for a relaxing weekend away to celebrate their wedding - 5 weeks before my wedding!

Our friendship group is the same, so other than family, we will have the same guests.

Basically, now her wedding will be almost the same as mine, but as hers is first, I'm the one that will look like I copied her!

Aibu to be absolutely livid that she's done this to me?

Motoko you are right. I responded to that post as well. Where in earth have all those posts gone?

MsJolly I wasn't being smart at all.
I understood that the thread had been picked up or planted by a journalist and was in a newspaper.
I thought you had missed that.

OP were we hallucinating or did you update the thread to say you had changed the venue?

What a bitch

I really appreciate all the comments.

Thanks

The movie Bride Wars comes to mind

daffodil are you one of the brides in question? If so which one?

@CircleofWillis - Alas, no, I’m an idiot who commented on the wrong thread.

YADNBU and she is no friend!!

:-(

And before anyone else says it - yes I am overly invested. Am going to sit on my hands...

YANBU. Weddings are really personal things and she’s totally stolen your thunder.

Just released my hands for a few minutes in order to type
@Motoko it appears that we too are ‘idiots’ (insert your own representative noun here) on the wrong thread. The bride who cancelled her wedding was on the demanding wedding guests thread.

@CircleofWillis Argh, too many problem wedding threads! They're all merging into one in my head!