I've just had the worst day of my life

[Razorboy]

I was on my way to work today. I had a phone call from my aunt. My dad has disappeared over Christmas. I have tried to contact daily. I knew in my heart something was wrong.

My family found him today. He is dead. The situation was fucking awful.

I have to put on my big girl pants and deal with the most awful thing ever. This was unexpected and horrific.
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Can someone walk with me through this please?

Oh OP I am so sorry for your loss. I don't really have any advice but didn't want to read and run

I’m so sorry

I'm so sorry OP . What a terrible shock for you.

and love.

What else do you need?

I can't imagine how awful this is for you and your family and friends. Sending you a huge hug.

So sorry for you OP. Sending so much love.

How awful ! Sending hugs xx

so sorry OP, what a horrible situation. Do you need anything?

Are you on your own atm?

I’m so so sorry. I’ve experienced similar, couldn’t get hold of my mum (I lived quite far away) and I just knew something really bad had happened. She too was found dead, completely unexpectedly. It’s such a shock and I’m so very sorry for you.

So sorry, what a terrible shock

How awful, I'm so sorry for your loss

This is horrible, there is nothing I can say to help you, sending you love. Stay strong

So sorry OP sending hugs xx

RazorBoy, I am so sorry. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. I hope that you are able to be with someone?

I'm so sorry. Sending you a hug

Awk love no words for you but sending hugs
Life can be so cruel

I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself. Losing a parent is horrific.

Sorry to hear OP. Do you have someone with you? You must be feeling in deep shock. It would be good if you were with someone in RL to help and talk.

I’m so sorry. What a terrible shock. Do you have someone With you?

This is awful, I’m so sorry

What do you need?

Practical or more cerebral?

I found my mum almost dead on her bedroom floor in 2008... so I have some experience.

I'm so sorry OP. I have no words but I will always offer a hand hold.

Oh I am so sorry.

I would imagine that there will need to be an autopsy, and an inquest. Someone will need to contact his bank, his solicitor (if he had a will) the DWP (if he was claiming any benefits), insurance etc. If he didn't have a will, you will need to get legal advise. You would probably need to check through his personal effects to find paperwork and so on.

I think it would also be a very good idea to arrange to see your GP as soon as possible too. And once New Year is out of the way, perhaps also the CAB, try and get an urgent appointment with them in your area.

Right now, you need to breathe. You wont be able to get anything done this weekend. And get as many friends/family around you as possible. Don't be alone.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I will keep you in my prayers.

My thoughts are you. I'm so sorry for your loss.