DP masturbating in my bed...aibu

[LittleMissUnreasonable]

I had family over for Xmas at mine this year and stay over . Dp of 1 year joined us as he has had a difficult time recently with parents separating under very complicated circumstances. We woke up together about 8.30 and he said he hadn't slept well due to his family circumstances being on his mind. While I was comforting him, he got turned on. He was embarrassed and said to just ignore it as it was a body reaction.

I heard my family downstairs so said I was going to get u and play host and if he wanted a few minutes to rest or have to himself due to the rough night that was fine.

I went down and saw to my family, made coffee and decided to take DP a tea up to bed. When I went up to my room he was acting shifty and refused when I tried to pull back the covers for a hug. Turns out he was mastubating and watching a Pornographic video on his phone in my bed. We argued and I said he was being disrespectful lying there doing that in my bed while I'm running about after family. He was mortified and so sorry and said he was hoping it would make him feel better.

Was I being unreasonable to feel annoyed. Please note I don't have a problem with it at all, it's perfectly normal to master bate but there's times and places surely

Poor sod having to apologise for a morning stiffy. You sound a joy 😏

Come back Doris!

HUGE THROBBING ERECTIONS

Just got the urge to shout this father Jack style all over the thread.

Isn't blue balls something you put in cocktails?

I just want to add that I love the term "sporting an erection"

No idea why
But it makes me laugh

Ooh yes it's a good term, cakey. Sporting - sounds so proud and regal.

A male stripper once dangled his balls into my cocktail

They weren't blue though

lovesagin what colour was your ballstail?

All of them will go up the anus as well.
Not in the porn that me and my wife watch...
You're talking bollocks.

onion, I have never seen bollocks being put up an anus.... I think Elenden has some penis envy. ERECTION

I never once mentioned how much men loved Lesbian porn.

People are so coy. Stop it!

@werewolfhowls I thought that too! Love a bit of Father Jack 😂

Yep you did

Depends on the size of the penis.

You haven't lived if you haven't seen bollocks up an anus sweetie.

As for dunking those tea bags!

Nope I didn't.

Creepy stalking? No... just remembered it because I read it earlier but ok

Presumably them "getting their rocks off " to it implies they kinda like it though?
I apologise for not including a word for word quote.

I'm a bit confused that he was embarrassed and had to apologise about having an erection.

That seems positively Victorian, especially if you've been dating a year already!

OP may I just a wank sock, tissues and penis beaker is kept in his side of the bed😁

Gosh, a bit of semen or my own fluids on the sheets wouldn't bother me in the slightest or cause me to change the sheets any sooner than I usually would.

Me neither.

Unless you use condoms sex makes a bit of a mess. I couldn't be arsed to change them every time we shagged for a bit of dry semen. It will be dry by the time I sleep on them and it isn't going to kill me, make me dirty or make me smell.

Same for a bit of blood.

I wouldn't have a problem with my DH doing it in our bed, as long as he cleaned up if he made a mess and stripped the bed, however I'd have an issue with the porn, but that's due to personal issues in the past.

I do think yabu when you've told him to relax in bed and I can't understand why he would be embarrassed about his erection, I'd be happy to sort it out if I awoke to my DH sporting one!

Ok, I am weird then because I'd have been bloody livid too. Watching porn whilst your family are over for Xmas? Just BLEURGH.

He did nothing wrong. YABU.

@ocelot41 They weren't in the same room. It doesn't affect them in any way, shape or form. And it's not even his family.

hahahahaha. of course YABU!