AIBU to ask partner to wash his hands before sex?

[Andrewsgirl]

Would your partner be offended if you asked them to wash their hands before having sex?

Do you believe most people in the world do? Honestly?

Ah, the world. I thought you meant this thread, the UK or even the West.

That's why there are hand washing campaigns. Because people forget hygiene. That's why many preventable diseases still spread.

Agree with Butchy. Depends on what they had been doing previously! Handling food such as raw meat,or digging the garden,yes definitely. Slumped in front of the telly,not so bothered.

I mean,you are advised to wash your hands thoroughly before inserting a tampon or a mooncup,because it's not advisable to put dirty fingers up your fanjo. So the same would apply to a sexual partner.

My ex sister in law used to change her baby's nappy,then without washing her hands,start preparing food for the family's dinner. I thought that was pretty grim thank goodness she's my ex SIL

Keep hand gel nearby.

Gross ! I’d of made him get a shower . But in my house you don’t get into bed “dirty” drunk or not sorry .

Only read page one. YANBU,his reaction seems a bit OTT to me.

LOL at sunshine being a disinfectant.

MadgeMak It is though... maybe not the best but it really does work as a disinfectant.

Without a doubt, it’s a matter of respect - hygiene issues can cause infections and all sorts of problems and a partner should be very considerate of this! X

Not at all.
I got a uti from that.. we were out camping and I didn't notice how dirty his hands were until the next day when it was light. They were filthy BAM, day or so later, UTI from hell.

ZOMBIE THREAD alert 😔

How did this reappear?? 🧟‍♂️

Ah 😑 now everyone knows I got a UTI from a dirty hand on my bits.. time for a name change..

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