Lweji
it's a stupid date to pick for a wedding because a lot of people are die hard football fans.
What do you mean?
What I meant was that because some people (quite a lot of men) are obsessed with football it is a bad idea from the couples perspective (especially the bride as it's "her big day") to choose the same day as a big football event - because it means a reasonable chunk of the guests are likely to be distracted and behave badly.
The example I gave above of a friend who was at a wedding where men were in the congregation actually in church listening to the commentary on ear pieces.
It applies to any major sporting event of national interest - I've seen similar bad behaviour at receptions - England winning at rugby causing people to be sneaking off within the hotel to find a TV and then getting far more rowdy and drunk that you'd expect at a wedding.