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To think this is a total invasion of privacy? (New boyfriend searching my details at work)

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Kellyopio · 15/11/2017 12:28

I started dating someone 7 weeks ago.
I work part time in a office and also look after my gran who is 93 with dementia.
I live in a council property at the moment and get help with housing benefit.
I didn't want to get into great detail with him so just said I work office work.
He is a housing officer for a local council (25 mins away from me) different council tho.
He has never been to my house and I've never given him my address.
Sunday we were going for a meal and I was in town so I said it's ok to pick me up from town.
I got in his car he said driving was a nightmare it would of been easier to pick you up from (my address)
I've never told him my address and he keeps asking questions about work and hours I do and housing benefit etc
I think he's been searching my details.
Would you be annoyed?

OP posts:
RaspberryOverload · 17/11/2017 11:57

OP, you may not have evidence but those computers will. They'll show what he's been looking at. You do need to report this, as who knows who or what else he's been looking at.

Battleax · 17/11/2017 11:59

m unsure about reporting him as I don't have any evidence,and I don't want to cause trouble,as I've only known him a short space of time.
He might be a total nutter and I worry incase he might turn nasty.

Reporting him is your best insurance against him "turning nasty".

You don't need proof, just relate events and your suspicion and ask them to investigate because your concerned that data protection law has been breached.

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