To ignore her?

[AwayInLalaLand]

I received a series of Facebook message recently from a woman I don't know at all and have no mutual friends with. Apparently, in 2011, I went on four dates with her current boyfriend.

Her messages are very long and she asks a series of personal questions including did he get you pregnant? Did you have an abortion? She asks because "he can't remember". I didn't respond and she's been messaging since calling me unfair for not answering.

I never slept with him.

She is saying it's upsetting him not knowing if he has a child and I owe him an explanation. Funnily enough he has messaged me or attempted to contact me in anyway. She has given me her mobile number and is demanding I call her.

Am I being unreasonable ignoring her and just blocking her or should I respond and fix his memory? I just feel that six years later it's ridiculous to message me out of the blue about impossibilities.

Ginburee - can't work out if your responding to me saying can't believe the ex hasn't apologises but if it was assume you haven't rtft where the ex messaged

You could message that an apology and reassurance that no further contact from either of them will occur will prevent report to authorities.

I assumed Ginburee thought it was the GF who messaged as if from him.

Cupofcake - Oh my goodness I never thought of that, good call ginburee! that's a whole new level of crazy isn't it, I hope he replies!

Yes I have read the whole thread but my thoughts are that the ex didn't message but maybe his girlfriend.
OP, any further contact?

I hope you don't have a pet rabbit. She's seriously unhinged.

Just returned for another check to see if she’s booked any bunnies yet! hugs

(Shameless placemarking 😝)

Update OP?

Even if it's just to say 'no news', just so we know you are OK......

Fortunately, I'm not a rabbit owner - so the fluffy bunnies are safe; and, as I've heard nothing from anybody I am too! Thank you for your concern it is very much appreciated

I feel if a man is wondering whether he has a child six years after a liaison I think it is unkind not to tell him he hasn't.
On the other hand, if he went on four dates and didn't have sex, anyone who thinks that there might be a child has issues that might benefit from professional assistance.

@AwayInLalaLand any updates? Did he get in contact?