He wouldn't let me eat because "I'm on a diet?"

[FluffySlippers21]

Hello!
AIBU?? Or am I completly in the right to feel so hurt 🙁
I'm 5'10 a dress size 12/14 with a healthy bmi but am currently following slimming world to lose my last 7lbs of baby weight.
Today I was out shopping with DP when I mentioned I was starving, he also said he was hungry and that he was going to nip in Burger King. When we got to the till I asked if he could order me such a thing and he replied "no you're on a diet" at first i thought he was joking but it became apparent he wasn't.
He basically expected me (knowing I was hungry) to sit there and watch him eat. I just find this so bloody cruel and nasty.
He even had the flaming liberty to sit down and offer me a CHIP after telling me I couldn't order anything.
I wouldn't mind if there was a health concern surrounding my weight but I'm a healthy weight!!
I am so upset and am currently sulking upstairs 🙁

I would have queued up and ordered my own meal. It's one thing being supportive of someone making healthy eating choices but something else to control what that person eats!

He'd have been wearing his order if he'd said that to me. That's really shit to humiliate you that way!

Why did you let it happen ? Why didn't you order your own food?

Why didn't you just order something? Is he your overlord?

Why didn't you order something yourself

Why didn't you order yourself something? Oh and yanbu he's a twat.

Why wouldn't you just order your own food?

Firstly, yes. His behaviour was selfish, and potentially controlling. He was being a dick.

But why on earth didn't you just order your own food? How on earth do you give him the control to decide you can't eat????

I would be raging!! Why would you not just order something yourself and tell him to fuck off.

Why did you not just order your own food?!

So you went along with it and didn't eat?! Wtf?

He's a dick. Why didn't you just get up and buy the food you wanted? Does he control the money?

He could have at least suggested going somewhere a bit healthier if you were both hungry and he wanted to be supportive. To tell you no you're on a diet is plain rude! I'd order a takeaway, none for him because he's already ate 😁

Hi girls, thanks for the opinions.
Forgot to mention in my original post that I stupidly left my purse in the car so couldn't have ordered anything myself 😠It's joint money so didn't see an issue in asking him to order for me

He isn't in charge of you, I would have ordered my own food, or taken myself off somewhere else and ordered my own food.

If I was trying to lose a few pounds (or DH was) we'd pick somewhere to eat that suited us both.

You are letting this happen. WHY?
He's behaving like your trainer and you are doing as you are told, then sulking. Dump him.

Bastard. Did he walk out of there and head immediately towards somewhere you could get food?

I personally would've got my own or asked for money (if I had none) to get my own...

Why an earth didn't you just order your own food? I would be absolutely livid. Is he a healthy weight out of interest?

Ah cross post. I would have asked for the keys, taken myself to get my purse and gone somewhere lovely.

And did you just sit there and watch him eat? Did you get any food?

It's too late now and I'm sorry you're upset but have you had a think about why you didn't tell him that you're an adult and you get to eat what the hell you want?

It's your body, your diet, your choice what to eat.

Even if you were twice the size you are it wouldn't be his job to police what you eat.

maybe he was trying to be supportive in his own way. Have you mentioned your diet and your weight to him?

If you think you have a healthy weight and are happy with it, why on earth are you on a diet in the first place?

It's rude to order food next to someone who can't eat, but you could have order your own. You both sound a bit unreasonable, sorry.

Joint money?
Does he often take charge of you like this?

I'd have chucked him tray of food on the floor!