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To think my husband is trying to have an affair

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sad9999 · 10/09/2017 23:23

A year ago my husband went to a conference and bought another woman a necklace. It was an infinity necklace witha diamond. She returned it to him with a note saying it was inappropriate. The package was given to me by his secretary as he was away and I deal with all his post when he is away from work.

I confronted him and he claimed it was innocence. It is out of character for him to buy gifts for any one i do all the buying he can't be bothered.

He is at the same conference again and has been really horrible since last year. Refusing to help lots of digs at me undermining me in front of the kids. Really glad to see him leave. Just been on the laptop and a message from her popped up please don't complicate things I can't see him tomorrow night !

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AnotherShirtRuined · 06/10/2017 12:29

Please come back if you need more support.

sashh · 06/10/2017 17:33

Copy all the email and then change the locks. If you don't need keys he doesn't need them either.

ohamIreally · 07/10/2017 08:53

Did you go away for the weekend OP?

sad9999 · 07/10/2017 12:26

Want away this morning couldn't face the kids not having school uniform on Monday so did their washing yesterday

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ohamIreally · 07/10/2017 12:41

Good - have a good time.

SleightOfMind · 07/10/2017 12:59

Demur king to offer my support too.
What an awful way to treat you. I hope the children run him ragged this weekend!

sad9999 · 08/10/2017 15:42

I am back he has gone to bed for a rest Angry

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SleightOfMind · 09/10/2017 03:12

Well, if he's so exhausted by a weekend in your well-equipped house, he certainly won't cope when he has to do, and organise, everything himself. 50/50 my arse!
Hope you managed to get some peace and clear your head while you were away and he hasn't left you a total disaster zone to deal with for tomorrow.

WhoAmIAnymore · 03/01/2018 09:28

How are things now OP?

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