To not pay friend back?

[Forevergazingupwards]

Going through a bad break up and asked to see friend but she was busy that night and invited me to go with her to London the following weekend to visit a mutual friend.

I asked her about train tickets and at the end of the week she bought and paid for us both.

The night before my grandma died and so I didn't go. Now a month later and friend is chasing up the money for the train ticket. I don't think I should have to pay, aibu?

Edge I was just about to post the exact same thing. Calling someone 'mental' is offensive.

As bereaved as you are your GM passing does not exonerate you from paying your debts.

Pay up OP. A good friend is more valuable than any amount of money

@EdgeoftheDesert, of course we'd be upset, I also feel like that when a driver tailgates me on a narrow windy road in the dark. But the OP showed a reluctance to see that it would be impossible to report it to the police without any information about the car or the driver.

Huh? I think you read what you wanted to see.

The OP never confirmed if she had information on the driver/car/licence plate. She may have done. She also said she was not going to contact them.

Edge asking if someone might have a mental health issue is far better to