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Is there another internet?

169 replies

Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 22:54

Some weirdo I met on a dating site claimed he used a different internet to what everyone else uses

Kinda paranoid he may have been able to snoop on me snooping on him . Googling potential dates is normal right?! I thought everyone did it and just didn't admit it

But why would he say that? Could he have been?

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LoyaltyAndLobster · 16/08/2017 23:11

Depends on your privacy settings

Last seen
Message read

^

I think maybe he was trying to call your bluff!

Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 23:12

@JaniceBattersby he came across as a paranoid but geekily intelligent weirdo so maybe he was a hacker type I guess

Tbh I'd just like to know how to do whatever he was doing if it was possible Blush curious geek myself

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Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 23:14

My privacy settings are so nobody can see when I was last on or if I have read a message but equally that means I don't get the blue ticks either hence I checked if he was online

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IfyouseeRitaMoreno · 16/08/2017 23:15

He threatened you?

Biffsboys · 16/08/2017 23:17

Embarrassed to ask 😞 What does HTH mean ?

Jux · 16/08/2017 23:18

The Dark Net is easy to access, you just need a programme.

I think he means a different Operating System, probably something like Linux. If he thinks that's a different internet he's an idiot.

blackteasplease · 16/08/2017 23:19

I was going to chime in and say the dark web isn't a different internet, there is no other internet, but someone has beaten me to it!

Whatsapp tells you when someone last viewed a message thread, doesn't it? So if that keeps changing it's obvious you have been checking (I guess).

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 · 16/08/2017 23:19

What does HTH mean?

Hope that helps.

DJBaggySmalls · 16/08/2017 23:19

There is no other internet, he just want to frighten you. Block him and report him to the site if he threatened you.

LoyaltyAndLobster · 16/08/2017 23:19

OP sorry I have just read the part where you said he threatened you, what did you say/do for him to say about bringing trouble to his door?

DonkeyOil · 16/08/2017 23:20

others use Internet Exploder

Haha! Sounds exciting Grin

Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 23:23

@LoyaltyAndLobster I can't remember exactly. Think I moaned about another user on the site who had given me enough grief to be scared enough to report to the police.

I don't engage either user anymore. Both blocked etc. Just wondered really why he was particularly paranoid about me.

I'm a fairly average non threatening person...

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LoyaltyAndLobster · 16/08/2017 23:27

OP I think it's best that you try and forget about him and be careful about who you choose to talk to online, a lot of people aren't what they make out to be.

BertieBotts · 16/08/2017 23:29

He was probably just guessing with the Whatsapp thing.

I wouldn't let it bother you. Write him off as a paranoid nutjob and move on :)

Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 23:30

Oh yes he's forgotten. Dating someone lovely now.

Just really puzzled why I would have caused someone so much paranoia

Maybe he was a spy and I was going to blow his cover? Dreaming Grin

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user9512736123 · 16/08/2017 23:30

Internet Exploder Grin

You can be anonymous without using the Dark Web. I'd be very suspicious of somebody using the Dark Web, it's suggesting to me that he's not a Nice Person.

PollyFlint · 16/08/2017 23:32

You've done nothing wrong and he is a nasty piece of work.

Block him on every app you use.

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 · 16/08/2017 23:33

I'd be very suspicious of somebody using the Dark Web, it's suggesting to me that he's not a Nice Person.

Anyone who freely admits they use the dark web is very unlikely to be using it for nefarious purposes.

KeiraKnightleyActsWithHerTeeth · 16/08/2017 23:37

I wonder if he has invented another internet in his head. I bet his kitchen is Google.

PersianCatLady · 16/08/2017 23:37

Well there is a darknet, where criminals and paedophiles allegedly hang out. Apparently very difficult to access
Not hard to access at all.

It took me about five minutes to work it out and even I was shocked at how easy it was.

PersianCatLady · 16/08/2017 23:40

Forgot to add, I only wanted to see what all the fuss was about as some other students on my degree course (Computing & IT) were discussing it.

I am not a pervert or paedo or both.

Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 23:44

Tbh I don't think he was evil. He wasn't for me and he was weirdly paranoid about me and weirdly judgemental with quite hilarious assumptions often

But I think one of our first conversations he'd asked what I thought about those pedo hunters which seemed strange but went along the lines of "personally I think they can threaten justice being served by taking the law into their own hands and if they worked with the police I might have more respect for them as who knows what investigations might already be happening" and he seemed in a lot of agreement with that

now I'm thinking maybe he did work in cyber intelligence or something

But that makes me wonder more why on earth there would be anything about me to be paranoid over... and hopeful there's some romantic story like him being undercover rather than me being the wierd one

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e1y1 · 16/08/2017 23:47

Only thing I can think of is the "dark web", if so, run a fucking mile.

Weirdo!

Fantasyfumble · 16/08/2017 23:47

Now paranoid he'll be reading this Grin

Waves at him just in case Wink

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BertieBotts · 16/08/2017 23:48

Paranoid people just get paranoid about random things, it's unlikely to be anything to do with you specifically. Nothing romantic but nothing sinister either, just a bit of a sad lonely man with demons.

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