We've been on the waiting list for a beach for for ages.
A new set are being built and we've been successful in securing a great one.
We were going to buy but I've had to put a hold on it for the following reasons-
I was trying to -using the square footage/floor plans - plan where storage stuff and table/mini kitchen would go etc and asked DH for his help
He's basically dismissed everything and told me that his kayack is going in and that everything else will have to fit around it.
His kayak will only fit it its diagonal and he's refusing to have is hing from the ceiling (which means everyone will have to bend anyway to avoid concussion - there's no permission granted for lockable storage under either.
I asked him is he'd also maintain /paint do essential repairs as he does nothing at home-answer- no im happy just to have somewhere for a kettle and a kayack. No consideration for anyone else or anyone else's enjoyment of it.
I've told him I'm withdrawing from it then- which he's having a huge strop.
I already do every shred of maintencance/work/upkeep on our home he helps with nothing- he has a home office which looks like he's Mr Trebus's protégée ND can just see myself wishing I'd not bothered.
Am I being unreasonable to withdraw (and think £18k for a kayack storage facility because DH is too fucking lazy to take his out of the shed and onto the car) and look elsewhere for myself and he kids?
[edited to correct copy and paste errors at OP's request]