New partner's holiday

[lunaysol3828]

So... new partner. Roughly a month together now. He had this holiday booked with friends before he met me so he obviously went.

When at home we chat a lot, texts, facebook, whatever, and we obviously see eachother a lot.

If you were me, how often would you expect to be contacted while he's on holiday?

@Mychildcouldnotbreaatfeed no, but usually when I say something on a thread I check if it's been discussed already. Again: english is my 4th language, had no clue "partner" is such a uncommon term after 1 month. Lovely day

The fact English is your fourth language does not exclude you being rather nasty in your tone. The one does not preclude the other. Hth.

It's totally different updating SM with photos/posts etc to texting someone. You start a dialogue with them for one.

Just leave him to enjoy his holiday.

@FrenchRoast It is very hard to explain the chemistry if you never felt it

Oh give over being so ridiculous.

You have been together 1 month!

It is very hard to explain the chemistry if you never felt it I agree - I'd have thought it was all bullshit till I fell hard very quickly. Within 2 weeks dh and I turned our lives upside down to be with each other...people thought we were crazy but 20 years on we are still very happy together, we just knew it felt right.

@FrenchRoast EXACTLY! I feel deep about this guy...

We've felt it, OP. Just not so desperately uncool as to bleat about it to strangers.

And you seem to have a number of usernames. One with a DH and a DS.

@missmollyhadadolly explanation down below. Have a username now and an account on my own email. Why would I lie?!???,

Just not so desperately uncool as to bleat about it to stranger. There's nothing cool about falling in love - it's a bit goofy to be honest - your inhibitions are set loose, I barely recognised myself! And strangers are the easiest people to tell - they don't know the old you!
OP I hope it is all you think it is now - we need more love in the world

@FrenchRoast exactly how I feel right now. It's like I don't recognise myself, I normally am very rational, when I heard love at first sight/soulmates/chemistry I was like bleah, that just can't happen, love comes slowly blablalalalala.

@FrenchRoast and thank you for your very kind comments!