Men trying to encourage sex after just two dates. This cant be normal surely

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I am sure not all men are like this but the last few men that have asked me out have been. The first date has gone really well. Maybe a kiss at the doorstep but then by the second date they want to come to your home to have sex.
I mean, they're not as obvious as that but when they drop me off at my house their hands are all over me and then they will suggest we go inside or they will try and get me to come to their house for a 'drink' after I've known them literally two dates.

I'd not even get in a car with a guy I'd known for two dates never mind have him in my house or him come to mine!

My ex was never like this. We had normal dates and then I stayed over at his after 3 months! Maybe this is altering my idea of what is normal but I really am shocked by how many men seem to expect sex so quickly.

Is this a sign these men ONLY want sex. Or is this the done thing nowadays?

would you really want a ltr with a man with so little respect for a woman that he'd dump her for doing the same thing he just did? I'd say it's a very good way of weeeding out the arse holes and you get laid. How is that not win win?
It works for me. I wouldn't want a relationship with a man who thought less of me for doing something he was an equal part in! I'd consider it a very good way of weeding out the misogynists before forming an emotional attachment to be honest.

I cant say im in a rush..

"but would you really want a ltr with a man with so little respect for a woman that he'd dump her for doing the same thing he just did? "

Why would you want a relationship with a man who'd dump someone for not putting out?

Men like women who want sex. They just don't want women who will shag a man they barely know

And yet my dh did and we've been together 27 years.

FUCK OFF ZOMBIE

I am old and long-married but it made me laugh to hear you say this is what "traditionally" happens like it's from a Jane Austen novel

And I don't care that this thread is old. Why does it matter if it's interesting?

My post was responding to the troll who has been deleted